question specifically for gay guys on here. does it bother you when homophobes or anybody in general make degrading comments like ' he likes it in the a**' or just make rude comments about anal sex in general

i can usually brush off homophobic comments that i may see or hear. but it genuinely bothers me when people think that the only aspect of being gay is 'taking it in the a**', i know for sure that its not enjoyable for me and probably millions of other gay men. also what about emotional attraction? why do people disregard that we feel love and emotional attraction to the same sex, its not just physical attraction.

discuss.

It is quite irritating, but I couldn't care less about the hillbilly ****s that say **** like that

I have yet to meet a homophobic person in my life or someone says as disrespectful as that to me

It's really not worth let petty **** like that get to you or you're just constantly going to be offended in life. People will always say ignorant things, learn to ignore it for the sake of your sanity.

oh reported now? for what...

i think it would be offensive to anyone honestly. its just too graphic. if someone where to come up to me and use words like that in any context i'd prob get pissed and snap on them (lol)

no but i hate when bitches ask me how do you do it? where does it go? does it hurt? like bitch idk I'm still a virgin, go look up some gay porrrn* on redtube, porrnnnnhub, xnnx or something ugh

Yea it's annoying, especially if said in an assholish (if that's grammatically correct) way.

Yes.
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I think it makes them feel less gay somehow when they do that. It's really disheartening;

Well, besides that I have never had somebody saying something like this to my face, I wouldn't be bothered cause the lack of intelligence speaks for itself. I gave up being upset about the stupidy of others.

It really is, self hate.

omg~! true that! I dont think they say it to degrade bottoms. i think they say it because they are bottoms themselves and are pressed that there arnt enough tops so they try to render/pressure bottoms into believing the world especially dont like bottoms (even in the gay community) so that they become tops! lol reverse psychological thingy! I'm on to you bottom haters ;p

No. I don't let trivial things like that bother me anymore. My 12 year old self did though.

No.
Why would it bother me....
They are probably the same men sticking it in their girlfriends ass.
Sorry for being explicit.

Not really I'm proud of it. TBH

This as well.

Gays say some really disgusting things too not just homophobes.