I honestly used to care a lot about Looks, but then I realized that the looks of a person don't matter in the slightest. It's all about the way the person makes you feel.
If someone puts you on top, someone makes you feel special, makes your day better with every message or gesture they give; Why should it matter how they look... especially if you want to marry them and all the looks will fade. All you'll have is the person you fell in love with, and that's why personality is so important.
Not true theirs this ginger guy at work I didn't find cute but after getting to know him I find him cute
So you can grow to like them too, his married though