Poll: Have you been thrown/kicked out of home?

IBeMe

Update! I am now living at a local church that the cops set me into. I will stay until I get a new part time job and can pay for cheap rent wit ha couple of other young guys and girls! thank you guys so much for all the love and support I got! seriously appreciate every single one yall!

qurl

You don't have any friends you can stay with?

Being 18 in this situation really does suck because there's not a lot of leverage you can use as far as getting back into your mom's house unless you reason with her (I realize that's probably pretty difficult)

I wish I could offer more help, you seem to be in decent spirits so I hope it gets better! Keep your head up.

IBeMe

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Originally posted by qurl

You don't have any friends you can stay with?

Being 18 in this situation really does suck because there's not a lot of leverage you can use as far as getting back into your mom's house unless you reason with her (I realize that's probably pretty difficult)

I wish I could offer more help, you seem to be in decent spirits so I hope it gets better! Keep your head up.

ya i know (loner much right?)

no no its fine and thank you so much tho! I think I realy wanted to post this up so that maybe ppl who are experiencing the same situation can find help or feel like others have been through the same thing and got out of it ok and safely. I know my last resort would prob be for me to talk to a cop or something and see what he/she can do.

but thank you your super sweet and I will don't worry. life can't drag me down lol!

Ethereal

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Hey so i've been kicked out a couple of times by my mother after she would verbally and physically attack me (lol) But my dad always looks around and finds me (once he called the cops to try and find me! it was some next lvl movie stuff with me hiding in the bushes at like 3 a.m because I was so embarrassed/pissed lmao!
And now my mom kicked me out again out of nowhere as soon as I woke up. and my dad isnt here anymore. I'm 18 so yes i'm an adult. But I don't have any money (I quite work like a week ago in a super dramatic/tv moment kind of way lol! and i spent what I had saved up on a gold necklace for my mom and a few gifts for my sisters b-day (and Shakira's album)

lol I don't have friends that can let me spend the night and I legit don't know what to do. I know I can roam/creep/walk around all night again but last time I did it I was mistaken for a male prostitute LMAO! so what does one do?
and have you experienced this yourself? what did you do?! I'm not taking this dramatically because life is a fish and then you marry one too but I'm just curious to see how yall dealt with it and if it happened to you before. I'm currently at a Mcdonalds using wifi.I'm in uni and Im never going to let this bump in my life ruin my education. I hope that everyone who has felt like this and has had this happen to them dosnt let life drag their goals down.

Hopefully this thread can help others in the same situation feel like there are ppl like them (especially since there are a lot of gay/lesbian/bi ppl on ATRL and as stats have proven most kicked out teens/kids are usually gay/les/bi etc.)

Discuss below and keep it Kawaii:

This is actually quite sad, and I hope you're okay. No one should have to go through what you've gone through.

But I suggest you talk to University accommodation, and try to reason with them and explain your case. I'm sure they'll be willing to.

Katy Perry

Why did you get kicked out? That's sorta sad.

Alystar

I real for bad for you dear. Don't you have any relatives, aunts, or uncles who can help you out ?

HUYPHAN

I ran away once though

i was a mess

Robert

No thankfully. I hope you're ok though and manage to fun somewhere to stay

IBeMe

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Why did you get kicked out? That's sorta sad.

its actually complicated. tbh. if i told you I legit didn't do anything you prob wouldn't believe me. my mom has this thing were she starts insulting you for random reasons and then hypes herself up and she becomes louder and more violent and it gets bigger and bigger till she explodes.

Pixel

Nope never

KillingYourCareer

No, my parents would never

eddytws

Once. When I was like 6.
But they didn't really want me to get away, they just asked me to stay outside for the whole night

RomanNavy

No my parents love me to death.

Hope you're ok tho! Sounds horrible what your mom did.. Perhaps you can stay at family? Where are you gonna sleep tonight?

ReleaseTheGimp

I left home once and went to my grans house. But i was back within a week. My family is a very passionate one and we have blazing arguments at least 3 times a week but we always come together in the end.

But thats me, i know people who are happier not in their family environment. Sometimes it's better to cut ties for a while but it's an individual decision.

IBeMe

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Once. When I was like 6.
But they didn't really want me to get away, they just asked me to stay outside for the whole night

OMG LMAO!!! thats actually crazy tho!! hahaha

IBeMe

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Originally posted by RomanNavy

No my parents love me to death.

Hope you're ok tho! Sounds horrible what your mom did.. Perhaps you can stay at family? Where are you gonna sleep tonight?

Im fine dont worry..i'll survive on mcdonalds value picks fries (lol!)

unfortunately most of my family lives in Europe :/
we are like the detached family that do their own thing far far away

I know i'll end up talking ot a cop or like someone suggested i should speak to the univesity ppl and see if they can do something to help me. its ok im really positive and im sure i can manage a way out of this.\your lucky you have parents like that and i hope you hold on to them forever <3

LilyAllen

nope. I have a very good relationship with my parents

bullshizzlen

No, I would go right to the cops. I have a no ******** policy. I'll drag everyone to the pits of hell and back. Nobody wants to deal with this.

Stan

Nope, but I thought about running away and where I could stay and stuff

It amazes me how chill you are with a situation like that. I hope you'll find a place to stay

Guernica

No my parents absolutely would never kick any of their children out, even if we don't have the best relationships. If one of us stays out for an hour longer then we said we would she starts to panic that something terrible happened and we're all in our 20's

My dad actually nevers want me to move out, he says he wishes he could just live with all his children in the same house forever