them just further proving everyone's point by screaming "I WANT A REALL MAN!!" while angrily typing "lady gaga is a flop. SLAY RIHALLAH!!!" into the next tab.
I mean at the the end of the day we are ALL gay and no amount of training to get rid f your lisp is gonna change how straight people perceive you. might as well have solidarity within our own community than attempt to separate ourselves
exactly. which means if they're attractive physically then why are you "repulsed" by their feminine mannerisms? says more about the "normal" gay than the "feminine" one
Yeah totally agree ALSO another issue is why are certain people saying "them" as if all gays act the same I mean wouldn't you rather get to know someone rather than judging them as one of "them"
The whole "they're only like that because of their repressed feelings" is so stupid and annoying. This is why people find it hard to like fems.
Instead of realizing people have personal preference, you guys like to try and victimize yourselves and put the blame on the people not attracted to you.
Some gays are "masculine" and are still very much comfortable with themselves. Just because I'm a guy that likes other guys doesn't mean I feel like I need to act like a girl.
Yeah totally agree ALSO another issue is why are certain people saying "them" as if all gays act the same I mean wouldn't you rather get to know someone rather than judging them as one of "them"
I agree that gay is not synonymous with being feminine, but it does make people question your masculinity. And it makes a lot of guys feel like they aren't real men. C'mon now. We all know those gays who try so hard to "pass". The guy who sounds like Barry White on the phone but a purse falls out of his mouth when you meet him in person. The guy who claims to be "straight acting" but stans for pop girls and knows nothing about sports. When it comes to gays like this, they often hate feminine gays because those feminine gays reinforce their own insecurities; that they aren't "real men" like straight dudes. Just my observations from my limited exposure to the gay community. I could be completely off base.
them just further proving everyone's point by screaming "I WANT A REALL MAN!!" while angrily typing "lady gaga is a flop. SLAY RIHALLAH!!!" into the next tab.
I mean at the the end of the day we are ALL gay and no amount of training to get rid f your lisp is gonna change how straight people perceive you. might as well have solidarity within our own community than attempt to separate ourselves
The whole "they're only like that because of their repressed feelings" is so stupid and annoying. This is why people find it hard to like fems.
Instead of realizing people have personal preference, you guys like to try and victimize yourselves and put the blame on the people not attracted to you.
Some gays are "masculine" and are still very much comfortable with themselves. Just because I'm a guy that likes other guys doesn't mean I feel like I need to act like a girl.
The whole "they're only like that because of their repressed feelings" is so stupid and annoying. This is why people find it hard to like fems.
Instead of realizing people have personal preference, you guys like to try and victimize yourselves and put the blame on the people not attracted to you.
Some gays are "masculine" and are still very much comfortable with themselves. Just because I'm a guy that likes other guys doesn't mean I feel like I need to act like a girl.
Fems are really the reason why people cant stand the gay community.
Like its okay to be fem but they do too much
Girl let me get you together real quick.. Fem guys are only on the outside but Supposed straight men that are married and have children on the dl ****ing these gay dude then going home to their wives ****ing them and spreading diseases are more of an issue than if a guy wants to dress up .. Like the gay community is so fixed on image than real problems
I don't have a problem with feminine gays as long as the way they're acting is genuine. If that's really who they are, who am I to judge? However, in my experience (and I'm sure some can relate), I have found many feminine gays to be obnoxious and loud. I realize that all feminine gays aren't like that though.
In a way, I feel as if feminine gays are needed in our community. The way they unapologetically let people know who they are...the way they take pride in being gay...I think they're a lot bolder than the masc gays. We need in-your-face people who are proud of their sexuality. We need that to make progress. We need to strike that balance. Not every gay person wants to be spotted from a mile away, trust me I don't, but I certainly have respect for those who are bold enough to not care.
I mean wouldn't you rather get to know someone rather than judging them as one of "them"
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