I know more fem guys in relationships than masc.

The fem guys are typically going after the masc male. I think a large amount associate that that is how a relationship should work.

idk to be honest lol!

fem4fem anytime hit me up

For every masculine guy, there's 100 incredibly feminine gays that claim they all want "straight acting hunks". Almost all of those guys end up dating fem guys because most masculine guys aren't interested in that. From what I've seen

You can be as fem as possible idc but you gotta be big

I wouldn't say feminine guys are overlooked, if the question was bashed I would say yes. I notice a lot of feminine men in relationships sometimes more than masc men. I think a lot of factors play into a gay/bi man not having a same sex mate whether it be:

. not wanting a relationship and just wants to enjoy being single
. location
. too quickly dismissing others who show attraction
. unrealistic standards
. all about sex or using it as a crutch to have a relationship and fail
. insecurity and other traits that turn others off etc...

Honestly I feel that most guys who don't date fems, because they're insecure with their sexuality, and they don't want to be labeled as a fem or be seen with one. It's sad how gay guys get discriminated against but then we turn around and do the exact same thing to ourselves.

if you are fem and with small dick your life is done..

I only like fem guys anyway so

Trust me, fem gays are not "left to rot" .


If you're fortunate to live in an area where gay couples are highly visible, you'll see that all types of gays, just like straights, can always find someone to love them...no matter what some others may perceive as obvious "deficiencies" about them.

nnnnnnn Sig worthy tbh

Fem gays are doing JUST fine. trust me im surrounded by many of them at my college and they have NO problem finding the good D.

I've only been in one relationship my entire life and it was with a masc guy lol...I was especially straight acting when i was 16 but then I noticed how he liked it when i was a bit more fem and so I slipped into that roll and enjoyed it. ever since i think i'd love being the more fem one in a relationship (im still a boy tho so im not a walking rainbow lol just like being softer and taking care of the guy, plus i need to feel like the guy wants me a bit more then i want him lol ) ...but there are fems that are just too cute to look past and their personalities shine so bright that its almost impossible not to love them.

and to top it all off I think that if a person were masc but had a terrible personality i'd never be interested yet if there's a fem with an amazing personality then i'd deff hop on it hahah