The Housewives actually really slayed me this video
They were serving me nymph's realness meets goddess of love realness.
Kyle & Lisa getting the spotlight as deserved
It's possibly not even true, since she's said her love for John many times, so not showing him wouldn't make sense. The 4th coffin being for her is a more plausible theory.
And maybe the "girl under you" truly means she doesn't mind being second to a guy because she will always feel wanted and loved by her Little Monsters. The retweet line could mean she wants people to spread her love by retweeting and also what she explained. Also the "I'm gonna wear the tie" means she has to accept the fact that she'll never be really on top and merley tied with others. The song can be sexual and have a much deeper meaning too which I think you and I are getting at.