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It's a bit strange... But when you think about it, it doesn't really matter when your older and let's say she's 24 and he's 21, so why should this be any different?

It's not a big deal.. My God.

Let it to, let it go..

That's not a valid argument, 21 and 13 are two completely different stages of your life. You're not the same person when you are an adult as you are when you're a kid in middle school.

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They're both teens.

When I was 13, 16 seemed so foreign and ancient to me. I mean, it's weird and frowned upon, but it's not exactly wrong.

inbefo "that aint dating thats babysitting lmao !!1!" no its fine.age aint nothing but a number

if she was 26 and he was 23 none of you would even blink

Oh i'm sorry does 11 and 8 paint a better picture of the point i'm getting across?

Yes, they're both teenagers but 13 and 16 are still worlds a part. Comparing them to ages older than them isn't nearly the same thing considering the fact that if you're an adult then no one WILL question because you're both old enough and mature enough and on the same level of maturity.

Firstly, they're both teenagers. So throw the comparison out. Secondly 13 is not the same as 16. They're teenagers, but their age difference still separates them mentally and physically. He still thinks like a kid, she is thinking like a teenage girl who is on her way to getting a driver's license and probably scoping out colleges soon.

Two different worlds. Two different ages. Them being teenagers has nothing to do with it.

As long as they're happy with each other I won't judge And even at the age of 13 he could still be more mature and grown up than many 16 year old dudes, but I don't know him so.