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Is the gay community more promiscuous? Why?
I wanted to make this discussion cause I'm having doubts and I've been pondering this for a while. Also, I think we can bring up many good points here.
By personal experience, I've noticed the homosexual community is way more promiscuous than the heterosexuals. I don't count with ratios or anything, just observations, and I'm sure many can agree. While straight people are indeed very sexually driven, I've noticed the gay community might take it to another level.
For example, it has happened to me that the first message someone ever sends me is "want to trade pics?", top or bottom?" or tell me to show them my private parts without even knowing me. Also, people have greeted me with pictures of their genitals without a traditional "hi" or "how are you?" I'm surprised at how people can do that. Also the Grindr app we're all familiar with, we find the creepiest things and guys would instantly hook up with you. Not saying straight people don't do it, but I've seen gay males (speaking for my case) do it the most.
I brought this to discussion because a lot of guys have been talking to me lately and I've been getting lots of messages and very few, I would say around 5% of them have actually greeted me with an actual "hi" or started a normal conversation (and at the end asked me for nudes anyway but at least they had the decency). I would say the other 95% talked to me to tell me they were sexually aroused or looking for pictures, and that actually made me think cause I ultimately want a decent relationship and also made me really sad for the gay community and how we've gone to those extremes. Not saying I haven't done it for fun sometimes but I make sure I at least know the basics of that person before sharing my intimacy in pictures with them.
So I want you to discuss and give your views on this topic, hope I made it clear enough.
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