For me, there's so many expectations in my family to reproduce and spread our family name, especially since there's only two of us boys. I also want my own child, with my genes. Therefore, I feel like the only route I should go is to marry a woman and grow my own family.

Is it possible?

EDIT: Lemme add on that while I've never been sexually attracted to a woman, I have been emotionally. There's that small part of me that wants to feel like the one in the relationship that takes care of the girl, that holds her hand and puts his hand around her waist. Kind of like very close friends rather than lovers.

Well in the news in the UK some Indian man married a woman to please his family.. now he is being done for murder of his wife

Link: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...sexuality.html

Do what you want for YOU. Not what your family expects of you.

Gay men have lived with wives and kids many times. Its happened before and it'll happen again.

of course, and you can sleep with as many men as you want on the side. just make sure you use protection so your wife doesn't get STDs. she'll never have to know and you'll have the best of both worlds. 90% of marriages end up loveless/sexless without any mutual attractions anyway, so you'll fit in with the rest of the str8 kommunity.

Impossible is nothing

You can get a surrogate

Its not possible to be TRULY happy while living such a lie like that. That is why I have a problem with people who say that we gays have control over the hate that we get, that we should try to make ourselves less open with ourselves if we dont want to face discrimination. yes that is an option but we shouldnt have to, we cant help who we are. i know im giving ***flawless interlude teas right now but..

Yeah, but they just won't be as happy as they could be

Get a surrogate mother, implant ya baby in her.
Be gay and free afterwards.

/problemsolved

No don't do it. That will lead to a miserable life.

That still not been sorted out?

Wasn't he seeing some sort of BDSM dom hooker guy?

Y'all act like this is so simple

Why would you lie to the woman and yourself tho? SMH.

Why not, just be upfront that you are primarily attracted to men but are emotionally attached to her?

As for this thread I would tell my family to take a hike. I mean come on, the family name? What year is this?

Yes it is possible and lots of people do it.

It's wrong, but possible.

Simple, no. Possible, yes and it's much better than living a lie in my opinion.

Do you guys think gay people just didn't exist until the last century or so? What do you think us gays did in the medieval times? Will you enjoy it? No. Is it possible? Of course. In 2014 and a North American culture, is there any real reason to? Absolutely not.