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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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Originally posted by Jacblo
I'm not sure if this is the right place for this, since it's about crushes and this has progressed passed a crush but it's not exactly like a relationship either.
But it's a fun story.
So, it all started one day in lab. Our mentor asked if we had music requests, and I of course requested the flawless Queen of Everything Under The Sky, Beyoncé. So they put on Beyoncé pandora, and the Anthem of the Lort, Say My Name came on. So I'm just jamming out and everyone thought I was really hilarious (and a huge kween probably), but this one guy in particular kept looking/smiling at me throughout the class as I sung to every Beyoncé song. I didn't think anything of it, lots of straight guys find my Beyoncé passion amusing, and he seemed like 100% straight.
Anyways, the next day I'm walking into my dorm, and he's talking to a friend my the entrance and he's like "Hey Jacob" and I'm thinking "Omg the cute straight guy is talking to me" but I didn't remember his name so I awkward turtled around but asked his name eventually and just went inside. I didn't think anything of it really, and he added me on FB later that night and I creeped but he didn't set off any rainbow flags so I just kinda went about silently admiring him in lab and whatnot.
WELL a week later I'm trying to study for a Bio exam and he starts messaging me on Facebook. At first it seemed friendly and conversational, but after like 3 hours it was 2 AM and he was still messaging me and I was having a microstruggle figuring this out since a straight guy has never messaged me out of the blue on Facebook for 3 hours. So eventually he gave me his number and said we should hang out.
So I was suspicious now and we walked to lab together the next day and we started texting all flirty and cutesy and at one point he suggested we should have a sleepover and play Pokemon and watch horror movies :RIP: So a few days later we ended up kissing in my dorm room and a few days after that we jerked each other off.
WELL THEN, he randomly stopped being affectionate and said we should just be friends (I have a large theory about this that involves his ex-boyfriend) and I was totes heartbroken.
But then three days later when we were studying he started being all affectionate and we ended up making out in the stairwell and he like whispered in my ear "I want to **** you so badly" and I was like "Omg."
So then a few days later we watched Frozen in my room and after "For the First Time in Forever" we ended up making out and I lost my bottom virginity to him
Then Spring Break happened and we texted occasionally and we are cool now but I don't know what we are. FWB? I don't know, but I like him a looooooooot. I just want him to love me *cue Why Don't You Love Me*
Oh and to top things off, I ended up meeting this guy who literally had the SAME confusing experience with my crush/FWB/lover and they don't talk anymore. And this new guy is really sweet and pays attention to me and returns my text, unlike FWB guy, and he is TOTALLY flirting with me, and he's cute, but I'm still so into FWB guy.
I AM STRUGGLEBUSSING SO HARD
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Gtuftufuyfuyfff
SIS! get that D
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This thread is brought back omg.
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Member Since: 3/3/2014
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Originally posted by BeyNavi
Please take several seats with this disney fairytale dream
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catch these hands b****
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Originally posted by marajxgrant
catch these hands b****
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Was that supposed to be a #clapback? I can't tell
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Originally posted by BubbleBath
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What's wrong?
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Originally posted by marajxgrant
so i was just taking a nap & i had this dream.
idk if it's a sign or whatever but i need opinions.
so anyway. In the dream, Cameron had broken up with me only like 6 months into us dating, but we remained friends.
Fast forward 10 years, we're both 26 & i'm the best man at his wedding to some faceless thot. And we're in the dressing room & he's having a hard time putting his tie on, so i get up from where i was sitting, & help him tie it. But when i finished he pulled me by the waist & told me that he didn't love her, that he still wanted me, after all these years & then kissed me. Anyway, my stupid ass let him back in my heart (I guess it was a nasty break-up, i don't really remember) & we ran away together.
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Speak Now teas
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BeyNavi, before this night ends you can expect a nasty drag in your tumblr inbox. you don't know what i can do
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Kid A
Omg mess I think I saw your pic in pyp. Your really pretty that guy was dumb to skip you.
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I was a chunky mess those years, but ty boo.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by BeyNavi
What's wrong?
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Nothing, don't worry.
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anyway. Cameron & i have been taking it slow these past few days, as per Kool_Aid_King & BeyNavi's advice, & His hormones clearly chilled bc he didn't try to rip me out of my clothes when he came to my house today things between me & him are going so good.
Thanks for the support from everyone
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Originally posted by BubbleBath
Nothing, don't worry.
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Okay
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Originally posted by marajxgrant
BeyNavi, before this night ends you can expect a nasty drag in your tumblr inbox. you don't know what i can do
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Well hurry up! I just replied
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Originally posted by marajxgrant
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anyway. Cameron & i have been taking it slow these past few days, as per Kool_Aid_King & BeyNavi's advice, & His hormones clearly chilled bc he didn't try to rip me out of my clothes when he came to my house today things between me & him are going so good.
Thanks for the support from everyone
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Good!
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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omg today was such a good day! In our first period class, my crush and I were put in the same group with this kid who is a complete idiot and says funny **** to get a reaction out of people. I'd ask the kid questions and my crush would laugh at them :') And he continued to stare at me in both classes. He came to my gym class again today, sigh. I like to pretend that he comes for me, but I know he probably doesn't
I wish he would come up to me privately or message me on Facebook or something
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Originally posted by BeyNavi
Awe! If you really want to know if he has feelings for you or if he see's it going to a more serious thing, just ask him. No use in waiting around for someone because if he wanted to be your bf, he would be by now. I've been there and you're not going to be helping yourself by keeping hope because that may prevent you from forming a true bond and relationship with someone else. So ask him, if you get the answer you want, great, if not, put him on the back burner and move on to the next.
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You are so right. This other guy is really sweet too and he's cute as well, and we have good conversations and he makes me laugh, but I'm so hung up on FWB guy that it's clouding my vision.
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Originally posted by Jacblo
You are so right. This other guy is really sweet too and he's cute as well, and we have good conversations and he makes me laugh, but I'm so hung up on FWB guy that it's clouding my vision.
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You should just put him on the back burner and focus on the cute new guy that makes you laugh
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Do you guys think talking to your friends ex is wrong?
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Originally posted by Kid A
Do you guys think talking to your friends ex is wrong?
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Depends on how they became an ex tbh
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Member Since: 3/2/2014
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Originally posted by BeyNavi
Depends on how they became an ex tbh
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The friend broke up with them...
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