I used this website http://www.nhs.uk/smokefree and also cigarette gum

I smoked for one year and was always like "oh I can quit when I want" and "oh it's sexy" or "it doesn't matter to me if the person who I date smokes"

I've been off em for four months. I have to be honest, it wasn't hard for me to quit at all (I literally just stopped one day and haven't wanted once since...I think I was lucky/just a casual smoker). That being said, I don't think I would date a smoker cuz I'm put off to it now, as contradictory as it may sound

No and never did.

I wouldn't want to date a heavy smoker too, tho. The breathe and the smoke itself is too much. It will be hazardous for our children too.