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Originally posted by Sam Jay
Basically. Most straights still just see you as "non straight" and most gays think that you're just closeted and won't admit that you're gay. Like why would I admit that I liked guys at all as well as girls if I didn't like girls? Why would I make the process harder for myself by having to eventually come out twice and still live in denial?
And it's annoying af with all of the stereotypes about bisexuals just being ****s who want to have multiple partners which isn't true at all. And most straight / gay people don't want to date a bisexual person because of those stereotypes. I'd rather be just one or the other.
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Same here. I know it isn't true, but I almost feel like it'd be easier for me to just be completely gay rather then bisexual. When you're bi then people see you as not fully committing to one or the other and they think that you're going to 'choose' another sexuality in the end (gay or straight). They don't see bisexuality as a permanent thing, and it's almost like they're just waiting for me to pick a side, which I'm not going to do because it doesn't work like that. I'm not 100% in the straight community but not 100% in the gay community either, I'm kind of dipping my toes in both and it's difficult sometimes. And let me not even get started on how a good amount of people just assume that you're lying about your orientation and refuse to take you seriously, like how offensive.
