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Discussion: Your Crush Thread
Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by marajxgrant
when i crush on someone i just become friends w/them & let them crush on me. sneaky but it's worked. twice.
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I've done that with girls before and it's worked, but idk how to go about doing that with a guy  But I want to try this on him!
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Originally posted by Nonchalant
I guess I'll leave my story here
So my best friend of 8 years, who claimed he was straight, had a huge crush on me for years. He eventually told me about it back in October, and basically begged me to go out with him. I did it even though I didn't feel that way about him, mostly so I wouldn't lose him as a friend and kinda in the hope that it'd work out somehow.
From there it was all flowers and sunshine for like 5 months - turns out he was perfect for me and I fell for him. It was easily the best time in my life, we went on a trip to Singapore with some friends and I've never had so much fun. Come end of January, he breaks up with me almost out of nowhere. Come end of February, he starts going out with A GIRL.
I can't even. We haven't spoken at all since we broke up. So I'm kind of a crusty, cynical mofo atm.
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Exposed her!!!!!
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by marajxgrant
when i crush on someone i just become friends w/them & let them crush on me. sneaky but it's worked. twice.
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my plan rn 
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Originally posted by Buddyc614
lordT
Im so sorry  |
the only good thing that came out of it is that my friends all sided with me, thank god.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by fanboyn8
 I'm bad at this. He's into sports and video games, absolutely zero common ground. |
What kind of games is he into sis? Maybe I can help you 
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Nonchalant
I guess I'll leave my story here
So my best friend of 8 years, who claimed he was straight, had a huge crush on me for years. He eventually told me about it back in October, and basically begged me to go out with him. I did it even though I didn't feel that way about him, mostly so I wouldn't lose him as a friend and kinda in the hope that it'd work out somehow.
From there it was all flowers and sunshine for like 5 months - turns out he was perfect for me and I fell for him. It was easily the best time in my life, we went on a trip to Singapore with some friends and I've never had so much fun. Come end of January, he breaks up with me almost out of nowhere. Come end of February, he starts going out with A GIRL.
I can't even. We haven't spoken at all since we broke up. So I'm kind of a crusty, cynical mofo atm.
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expose ha! no fan of britney deserves to go through this make the bitch listen to perfume on repeat for 4 days 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Dollas n Diamonds
What a bitch! how dare he
this is basically my story but with no real relationship ever happening |
 I feel ya sis 
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Member Since: 2/6/2014
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Originally posted by mannybillionz
Bitch you better log EVERYTHING that happens in June I want the deets Some of yall stories need to be picked up by HBO |
I don't know why tho, everything was so easy and i don't need any extra bla bla bla to get him, it just happened naturally, we embraced everything but we didn't talk anything about homosexual stuff, it's just "let's do it..." like hugging, holding hands while walking... when i went back to the City, i called him to validate his feelings LMAO, then he said... "i hate how you changed the perspective of my life after i met you, i'll never be the same again." Then i giggled and said "Ok, so now, you're going to deny and doubt everything we had, go ahead.." Then he kinda pissed of cuz i teased him that way... he then replied "You know what, away from you is like there's a part of me missing..." I was sad to hear his confession, i just can't, i don't want him to be sad.. 
Then he said, the day i left him, he said he couldn't sleep.... because i stole his soul, lol how creepy...
But i comfort him, i said "Live your life to the fullest there, don't get stuck in the past, we both should be happy and the benefits of all we'll share this June, just take care of your self" He then laugh and start to fantasizing what would happen by the time he comes.. LOL one thing i said was, "i will run to you then hug you at the air port.." even it's still in future, it makes our life positive and focus 
I remember the day where we both traveling, i always hug him there, holding hands, he slept on my shoulder.. if he woke up, he'll smile...
I deserve this, i remember how broken i was with my 1st crush who loves me but feeling damn insecure to express it, while me on the other said, i gave him all of me and he knew it... since the love is pure with good intentions, and he didn't accept what we had so the UNIVERSE do what it has to do.. to send me a balance partner.. BOOM, it's so unexpected I'll share pic one day
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Have you ever had that someone where you remember everything that involves them. The first time you met, the first words or conversation you ever had with them. The way they look at you. The way they smell. How they made you feel when they would talk to you and how sometimes you don't have say a word to them, a simple glance says everything and more. That someone who shocks you by showing how much they know about you and accepts everything about you, even the fact that you have feelings for them. The way that, when you guys fight and stop talking to each other, they somehow always end up coming back into your life in some capacity. The first guy I had ever had strong feelings for and even after all this time, he's still my crush, and I still love him. I still wish that someday I cold finally be with him even though I know it won't happen. I need to move on and try with someone else and yet everyone gets compared to him and no one ends up making me feel the way he made me feel.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by seanoh
What kind of games is he into sis? Maybe I can help you |
He's playing Skyrim now or something like that 
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Member Since: 2/4/2014
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Originally posted by fanboyn8
He has changed in the room twice already 
He's looking just fine right now. He scratched the back of his head just a few minutes ago flexing his biceps in the process  I'm terrible, everything feels awkward/sexual in my head. He's so cute, like I can't deal right now.
I'm bad at this. He's into sports and video games, absolutely zero common ground. |
Pull down your pants enough so that he can see your butt crack.
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Member Since: 3/3/2014
Posts: 3,214
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Originally posted by seanoh
I've done that with girls before and it's worked, but idk how to go about doing that with a guy But I want to try this on him! |
sis all you gotta do is pretend you're interested in the same things. the rest is easy. 
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Nonchalant
I guess I'll leave my story here
So my best friend of 8 years, who claimed he was straight, had a huge crush on me for years. He eventually told me about it back in October, and basically begged me to go out with him. I did it even though I didn't feel that way about him, mostly so I wouldn't lose him as a friend and kinda in the hope that it'd work out somehow.
From there it was all flowers and sunshine for like 5 months - turns out he was perfect for me and I fell for him. It was easily the best time in my life, we went on a trip to Singapore with some friends and I've never had so much fun. Come end of January, he breaks up with me almost out of nowhere. Come end of February, he starts going out with A GIRL.
I can't even. We haven't spoken at all since we broke up. So I'm kind of a crusty, cynical mofo atm.
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Hell no , A GIRL  , that would feel like a slap in the face to me
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Originally posted by HausOfJustin
My teacher is crazy about LGBT rights, so I literally feel like if I went up to her, explained my situation, and asked her to pair us up for these little in class french conversations we have quite often, she would actually do it  |
Yasss lemme stan for your french teacher 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Victon
I don't know why tho, everything was so easy and i don't need any extra bla bla bla to get him, it just happened naturally, we embraced everything but we didn't talk anything about homosexual stuff, it's just "let's do it..." like hugging, holding hands while walking... when i went back to the City, i called him to validate his feelings LMAO, then he said... "i hate how you changed the perspective of my life after i met you, i'll never be the same again." Then i giggled and said "Ok, so now, you're going to deny and doubt everything we had, go ahead.." Then he kinda pissed of cuz i teased him that way... he then replied "You know what, away from you is like there's a part of me missing..." I was sad to hear his confession, i just can't, i don't want him to be sad..
Then he said, the day i left him, he said he couldn't sleep.... because i stole his soul, lol how creepy...
But i comfort him, i said "Live your life to the fullest there, don't get stuck in the past, we both should be happy and the benefits of all we'll share this June, just take care of your self" He then laugh and start to fantasizing what would happen by the time he comes.. LOL one thing i said was, "i will run to you then hug you at the air port.." even it's still in future, it makes our life positive and focus
I remember the day where we both traveling, i always hug him there, holding hands, he slept on my shoulder.. if he woke up, he'll smile...
I deserve this, i remember how broken i was with my 1st crush who loves me but feeling damn insecure to express it, while me on the other said, i gave him all of me and he knew it... since the love is pure with good intentions, and he didn't accept what we had so the UNIVERSE do what it has to do.. to send me a balance partner.. BOOM, it's so unexpected I'll share pic one day |
Not this being one of the cutest stories ever
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
Posts: 7,248
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Originally posted by AllEyesOnUz
expose ha! no fan of britney deserves to go through this make the bitch listen to perfume on repeat for 4 days |
bitch didn't even like Britney, why did I even like him 
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Member Since: 6/25/2012
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Originally posted by fanboyn8
He's playing Skyrim now or something like that |
girl ask him what he's playing then be like oh i think ive heard of that or something then he'll be like bitch have you been living under a rock?! then say you dont really play videogames then ask to watch him or somthing and he'll be like sure cause how woulld say no when your in the same room , like really? then maybe he'll try to teach you and BAM you have something in common to talk about
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 6,868
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Originally posted by fanboyn8
He's playing Skyrim now or something like that |
omg sis skyrim is the best!!!! Ask him if he's going to get the elder scrolls online when it comes out, it's like an online version of skyrim
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Member Since: 2/6/2014
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Originally posted by BeyNavi
Have you ever had that someone where you remember everything that involves them. The first time you met, the first words or conversation you ever had with them. The way they look at you. The way they smell. How they made you feel when they would talk to you and how sometimes you don't have say a word to them, a simple glance says everything and more. That someone who shocks you by showing how much they know about you and accepts everything about you, even the fact that you have feelings for them. The way that, when you guys fight and stop talking to each other, they somehow always end up coming back into your life in some capacity. The first guy I had ever had strong feelings for and even after all this time, he's still my crush, and I still love him. I still wish that someday I cold finally be with him even though I know it won't happen. I need to move on and try with someone else and yet everyone gets compared to him and no one ends up making me feel the way he made me feel.
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My 1st crush exactly like this... then he turned into something else, a dark version of him that try to push me away.. bully me emotionally and it affects me physically too... still i gave him so many chances, but the lines were keep getting blur, so i quit, focus on my life and i set him free.. i'm better now
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Dollas n Diamonds
girl ask him what he's playing then be like oh i think ive heard of that or something then he'll be like bitch have you been living under a rock?! then say you dont really play videogames then ask to watch him or somthing and he'll be like sure cause how woulld say no when your in the same room , like really? then maybe he'll try to teach you and BAM you have something in common to talk about |
imma try this. Maybe he'll try to teach me the controls by placing his hands over mine like a cliche date when the guy tries to teach the girl a sport.
But imma do this. I'm going in sis, I'm GOING IN.
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
Posts: 7,248
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Originally posted by fanboyn8
He's playing Skyrim now or something like that |
skyrim makes the best conversation filler, I've talked about it for like an hour before 
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