I stumbled upon this video on youtube.



It's sad too see someone who's married with 2 kids and later realized that they're gay ended up getting a divorce.

So my question for the bi girls and guys on here, do you prefer to live the striaght or gay lifestyle?

Who knows, I'm only 17
I guess that when I find someone I really like, girl or boy, I'll adapt to the gay or straight lifestyle. I'm not the cheater type of person anyway so I guess that if I get into a serious relationship one day I'll be able to keep it.

People who marry really young like him usually end up getting divorced anyway.

I don't know. I still have a lot to learn. But I've enjoyed relationships with men and women equally up to this point in my life.

I'm bi and there's no such thing as living the gay or straight lifestyle. You are what you are. Either way it goes both lifestyles are gonna be hard to live by. If someone is bi they are basically living In a bi lifestyle . They are not livin In a straight or gay lifestyle because they are bi. 😊

I know a lot of "bisexuals" who turned out to be gay

Added poll.

What is it tho?

I'm talking like when u settle down aka old. Do you see yourself with another man or do you see yourself with a big house, a dog, a wife and kids?

Or do you still sleep around with both genders even if you're like 40?

When i will found the right person, i will keep her / him next to me for ever. So i don't know ... It's sad realize it after the marriage expecially when you have kids! keep calm and stay real

edit: the fact is... i don't care about the sex male/female, i wish someone who loves me

This is kind of infuriating. How could he not know that he liked guys? Like, you don't just accidentally marry a women and have two children with her. That's really unfair to the woman who now has two children who are going to be wondering why their daddy isn't around.

I'm bi and I would never get in a relationship with a woman unless they knew that I was bi and was okay with that, especially not a serious one (as in, marriage and children). That's just unfair and abusing of your partner's trust.

:^(

I'm still young, so idk

looooooooooooooooooool

"realized he was gay and got a divorce"

sis you don't just wake up one morning and realize the thing missing from your marriage is a dick up your ass

Sorry, the dude's just as bad as any other dad who walks out on his family. His reasons might not be as bad as drugs or crime, but he still built a life that he had to know, deep down, he didn't want to maintain.

See, this is the common misinterpretation of bisexual people. Just because someone is bisexual doesn't mean that they have to have relationships with men and women at the same time. When you think of straight or gay relationships you don't consider the possibility of them having multiple partners at the same time, so why should it be that way for bisexual people? Just because they are bisexual doesn't mean that they'll have a wife and a man on the side (this is the same as a straight man having a wife and a mistress on the side, it happens but it's not normal and not what should happen).

Just because you're bisexual doesn't mean that you have to chose one lifestyle over the other. In actual fact, what even is a "straight" lifestyle or a "gay" lifestyle? You mean choosing to settle down with a man or a woman, right? The whole thing about being bisexual is that you can be attracted to people of both genders, not that you're attracted to everyone. So if I meet "the one", and he turns out to be a guy, then awesome. If she turns out to be a woman, great. We don't pick and choose who we fall in love with, just like any other straight or gay person. We can't just say, "I'm going to marry a woman and have kids and a dog but I'll probably sleep around with guys on the side." That's just wrong on so many levels.

Oh that I truly don't know! Lol settling down with a man or a woman never crosses my mind because I just don't know to be honest. It's whatever happens I guess you never know lol

And I will never sleep around in my 40s like some old people. I'm 22 years old and I'm waiting till marriage to have sex personally but I doubt I'll be one of those overly sexually active old people lol

i am in a straight relationship atm and he knows of my bi sexuality... i'd love to be with a guy whos bi but im afraid they might just be covering up

Believe me if the guy has enough balls to tell you he's bi , he's most likely bi. If you can't trust him to begin with then you shouldn't be in a relationship with him to begin with

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I wouldn't say this is "sad"... I think it's inspirational!

He kicked his drinking habit AND came out. He's probably in his late 20's plus in the comments he said his wife is his biggest supporter. This is a good thing!

At least he realized it while he was young & not when he was in his 50's!

i hate when people do this tho like they put on the sad music and instead of talking about it they like write things out to make it more dramtic he needs to stop. and no how can you not know you like guys like look at the D and if ya want it then go 4 itttt HAAAAAAAAAA