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Originally posted by Adele Addict
Um... Actually, yes, I am a virgin. If you're going to judge me for that, that's really sad because there are plenty of virgins in the world. I don't think sex should be the basis of a relationship at all, unlike a lot of my peers. Why can't two people just love each other? They don't need to have sex to prove they love each other. And I'm not ready to have sex. I haven't met someone that I want to marry and I'm Christian and believe God gave humans the gift of sex for the purpose of creating new life. I don't even intend on having sex until I'm married, and even then I don't know if I'll do it. It's just not something I've ever felt necessary to make me happy or to prove to the person I love that I love them. I'm not jealous. I understand "Partition", and for the millionth time, I'm not calling out Beyoncé. She's entitled to have sex with her husband. I'm not discouraging that. But I just think there are other things to focus your music on other than sex. And I do have an appreciation for sex, but I don't think it's the most important thing in life, unlike most of society, unfortunately.
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Yet sex is probably the most intimate form of love you can give to your partner. Sex help feeds the attraction you have for someone. When you fall in love with someone there is a sexual desire also known as lust in which results in sexual intimacy.
I totally respect you for waiting, but dont play down the facts that a relationship can last without sex because if you are in a mature / real serious relationship then sex is pretty much a given to survive, notice how I said it's not everything, its one of the many forms of love a relationship needs. The desire to pleasure and make your partner feel good has to be there.
