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Originally posted by lum
Gurls I'm crying while singing to Maybe and typing this...
So I've never been in a relationship. Last week a guy I've met on J***'d asked me out on a date and it went well (I guess) and he hinted at having a serious relationship. I went to his place on the next date and we made out. I really thought I meant something to him but today I went on the app (I've stopped using it since last week) and saw that he is stilling (frequently) using it. I've asked him about it and he understands why I'm so f***ing unhappy about it but he won't commit to anything. See, I understand I'm not his official boyfriend and I can't expect him to like me the way I like him. But this feels so shi*** and I've cried three times today already
I wish I was more open about things like this but I can't bear the thought of my crush flirting (and possibly f***ing) with other guys when we're in a (very ambiguous) relationship. Sigh sometimes I just wish I prefer puss***, girls seem to be much more faithful in relationships than guys.
I'm a damn mess but hey at least the tears stopped now. And now I can finally appreciate Maybe the way you gurls do...it speaks directly to my heart. Also, I'm not quite sure why I'm posting this since I don't post too often and are not too close with ya'll but hey people like us stick together. I just don't know what to do.
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A few things. 1.) Did all of this transpire over a week?

It's much too soon to have any kind of feelings about anything. 2.) It's a little weird to be hinting at a serious relationship on the first date. 3.) Maybe the worst thing you can do is show that you're upset about it. As stupid as it is, it's all about the chase for so many guys. Showing your feelings like that will show him that he's got you right where he wants you and he'll have all the control from now on.
In my experience, I've learned you should honestly expect absolutely nothing. When something is meant to work out, it just will. Sorry you're having a rough time, hope it gets better for you. Maybe stay away from this one.