I found something close to love once, but it didn't work out in the end, and I don't think I can ever find something like that again. One of the reasons is that my heart is not as open as before anymore.
I'm currently in a relationship, and I like him and care for him a lot, but I don't think it's love yet.
PS: I mean romantic love here, either hetero- or homosexual one.
As far as what you said about your heart being closed, I'd say that's normal for most people exiting a long term or serious relationship. It's in those moments where you're able to gain clarity on what it is you really want in a partner/union.
And after the hurt is gone, and maybe you've had some fun (), you will want to love again. For some it takes a few months, and for others, years.
Honestly, I'm really starting to question it lately. It seems like the only people that try to hit on me are already taken or major closet cases/DL just looking for "fun". It's kind of annoying and making me lose hope in love.
I think a lot of people will say no because they'll confuse true love with disneyfied versions of it.
True love is REAL. There will be arguments disagreements, and fighting, and boredom. But where other relationships crumble under their weight, true love grows stronger.
), you will want to love again. For some it takes a few months, and for others, years.
