No.

but when I settle down, I will need someone who loves me MORE than I love them.

I don't fear love because I don't hold a romanticized view of what it is. I know love isn't this easy fairy tale where someone is literally perfect and saves you from your insecurities. No one is perfect but you can find someone perfect for you at least imo. As far as me finding love well I don't seek happiness from others and I never know when it will come....

i agree. There's no such thing as "the one."

There's the "many" and it's perfectly ok to be IN love with more than one person, and that is the perfect kind of love.

+1

Absolutely not. I'm not afraid to love someone, like balls to the wall 100% love someone. I don't think loving someone is a bad thing. Everyone is going to get hurt, it happens, and it's just a part of this crazy life we're all living. You just gotta take the bad with the good and move on. Love is such a great thing and it really kills me to see people getting bitter about it and turning such a great thing into such a terrible thing. I love all of it, the fun butterfly feelings, the getting your heart broken, all of it. It's fun. Love is great. I don't fear it in the slightest, and I don't think falling in love is a weakness. It's a strength, if anything.

Sis, Ive accepted it. Not exactly here for friendship either. People always leave me in the dust so now Im beating them to the punch and not even letting them in.

This. I've had it.

No, I'm in a loving relationship

Yes, I do... and I think it's human nature to fear the unknown.

Look at it like this, every time you enter a relationship it's literally like Russian roulette! It's either going to go really well, or end - no middle ground. IMO, whenever you enter a relationship you are gambling. However, it's all part of life and growing up. Everybody will have X amount of failed relationships before they find somebody worth keeping, and that's just the way it is. I scared of being hurt as I've been there in the past, but life does go on... you meet new people etc. As cliche as it sounds, when you do find love, I'm sure all the past experiences of being hurt and feeling let down will no longer matter.

I fear I am unlovable.

Yes I am. That's why I am afraid to get into relationship. I don't like rejection and I am so afraid my partner is going to cheat and screw me over

I only fear that no one will love me

This is 100% me, the prospect of giving myself to someone I'm completely in love with is so scary because they could hurt me and I don't know if I would be able to cope with having my heart ripped out. When I find myself developing feelings for someone I distance myself.

I think my problem is that I overthink things and I don't really know how to trust people completely.

I've never been in love, just had a few crushes, but I wouldn't want to fall in love with someone when I have more important stuff to think of like school.