Mostly directed towards the ATRLers who are Gay and out.
Simple question, if someone hot wanted to date you -- but you had to deal with the daily struggles of them being in the closet about their sexuality, would you still date them?
I aready tried, gave up after the second date, it sucks so much that no one can see us because I'm outted already and we can't do anything together, I couldn't handle iT
I laready tried, gave up after the second date, it sucks so much that no one can see us because I'm outted already and we can't do anything together, I couldn't handle iT
I'm mixed cause of this. I know what it feels like to be in the closet obviously, but the fact everything is so hidden and it becomes more of a hiding game than a relationship.
My current boy kinda is. We can go out on dates together and everything, but he doesn't talk about his sexuality and isn't "out" at his work or home place. It's fine, as long as I'm not screaming "HEY LOOK AT MY GAY BOYFRIEND" everywhere I go.
No.
The whole relationship would be a secret. I'd suggest him come out first and learn to love and accept himself before he loves and accepts me as his significant other. I'd happily be the one to be there for him as a friend, helping him to come out though, otherwise there would probably too much drama and paranoia unfolding within the relationship if he were to stay in the closet. I aint got time for dat
