This is sad! Why do you have to limit yourself based on a number and/or in what society think is right for you?!
Keep breaking doors Madonna and show Beyonce the way.
Bey addressed this in Part 4: Liberation of her "Self-Titled" mini-doc series.
She's a mom, yes but she's also a grown woman. She can still have fun and still be sexy [FYI: Moms have sex too].
I find it hilarious how most of you lust after 30+ year old men [that have children] when they go shirtless or
pull down their pants and hump the air or show "cakes" or whatever but NEVER have I seen one
of you go "But isn't he a dad? "
Bey addressed this in Part 4: Liberation of her "Self-Titled" mini-doc series.
She's a mom, yes but she's also a grown woman. She can still have fun and still be sexy [FYI: Moms have sex too].
I find it hilarious how most of you lust after 30+ year old men [that have children] when they go shirtless or
pull down their pants and hump the air or show "cakes" or whatever but NEVER have I seen one
of you go "But isn't he a dad? "
BEYONCE the album has 5 songs that can be viewed as sexual....that's not even half of the album
It's really showing of one's character and intentions when they only single out one aspect of something and ignoring everything else about it.....
I'm sure Beyonce won't raise Blue to be a narrow minded, judgemental person so I highly doubt Blue will feel any way about seeing these videos and hearing these songs when she becomes of age. Blue will be proud that she has a successful, fearless, powerful, motivated, hardworking mother and father....
So you can feel like she is over sexual and all that other stuff but the only person that is bothered is you....
You are doing a lot bro. She is an entertainer. Beyonce isn't walking down Kroger dancing. She is on stage, and in videos, entertaining.
I mean, if celebrities being sexy bother you so much, how did you even end up on ATRL?
I personally don't have a problem with it. She's not my mom, maybe if she was I would have a problem with her singing about how she likes her oral sex... But she's not my mom. I'm just saying understand both sides of the argument
Seriously. I've never seen a comment on a Robin Thicke or Usher video saying "WHY IS HE BEING SEXUAL IN PUBLIC!? HE'S A DAD!!!!"
I think a lot of the "sexism" argument has to do with the fact that men, in general,
don't really care as much as women do. Take this viral ad from K-Mart, for instance:
Men found it funny, and women found it cute "and sexy." Men don't care nearly as much about being "gawked at" as women do, so you will never, or very rarely, hear "That's sexist to men!" or "Robin Thicke is a dad! Stop being sexual!"
Women tend to be hypocritical in this context, because they like to see men sexualized just as much as men like to see women sexualized, but the major difference between the two sexes, is that women make more noise when it comes to being objectified where as men could really care less about being objectified as just find it humourous. In fact, when men do complain, 90% of the time, they're trolling for the sake of satire.
If there was a gender reversal in either of those two ads posted above, women and over-the-top feminists would have a meltdown across the world, but because men are featured in the advertisements, no one really cares, including men.
So, the bottom line is that, yes, Beyoncé can be as sexual as she wants at her concert or on that disaster of an awards show known as The BET Awards, but at The Grammys, or AMAs, or Billboard Awards, et cetera, she'll have to tone down the sexy, or face backlash from bitter women all over the world, just like Miley did. That's just the way it is and will always be.
People just want to see her fail. She could've saved a performance like this for her World tour, however, in order to stay out of controversy. I, personally, did not mind it at all. But parents really shouldn't be slamming her. They make every celebrity as a role model for their children, when they themselves are the role models. It should be their job to teach your kids right from wrong and turn away from someone as comfortable in their own skin as Beyoncé if they don't like it.
I personally don't have a problem with it. She's not my mom, maybe if she was I would have a problem with her singing about how she likes her oral sex... But she's not my mom. I'm just saying understand both sides of the argument
But Beyonce isn't walking up the streets naked....she isn't anywhere naked but she isn't dressed like she is on stage all the time....
Her music, performances, and videos are a part of her work, what she does as an entertainer and artist
Why would you say that her child will be embarrassed of her like she talks about sex all day everyday...
Beyonce is a respectable woman and this album or anything associated with it does not change that fact one bit
If other celebrity children have grown up fine with parents who have either sang sexual songs or actors that have done sex scenes in their films then Blue will be fine. Is Beyonce the first of her kind to wear sexy stuff & do sexy things as a mother? Far from it. Blue will grow up with the understanding that her parents are in the entertainment business & what some of that world entails which includes the image of sex.
People just want to see her fail. She could've saved a performance like this for her World tour, however, I'm order to stay out of controversy. I, personally, did not mind it at all. But parents really shouldn't be slamming her. They make every celebrity as a role model for their children, when they themselves are the role models. It should be their job to teach your kids right from wrong and turn away from someone as comfortable in their own skin as Beyoncé if they don't like it.
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I swear, Cartoon Network and Nickelodeon are more vulgar and inappropriate than anything Beyonce did on that stage
People will look for any and every reason to hate her so she shouldn't hold herself back for the sake of anyone
Bey is a sexy woman who is ONLY 32. Seriously, this topic is crazy. She's a mother and a pop star; it's her life, her body. I'm certain Blue will be raised with great morals. She's still a freaking infant for Christ's sake. However, I must say I've always thought Bey gets cut more slack than some of her contemporaries when she's dressed provocatively or performs what some would deem overtly sexual routines. Especially from the GP, atrl queens are a diff story. But, for now I say flaunt it while you still got it.
But Beyonce isn't walking up the streets naked....she isn't anywhere naked but she isn't dressed like she is on stage all the time....
Her music, performances, and videos are a part of her work, what she does as an entertainer and artist
Why would you say that her child will be embarrassed of her like she talks about sex all day everyday...
Beyonce is a respectable woman and this album or anything associated with it does not change that fact one bit
And I'm telling you that just because its on a magazine/stage, doesn't make any less awkward for the child. It doesn't even matter if its to do with her work, hearing your mom sing about bath tub sex or seeing your moms underboob on a magazine will always be awkward no matter the context. Not to say that Bey should stop what she's doing, I like it, but I'm not her child, so of course I won't have a problem with it.
I think a lot of the "sexism" argument has to do with the fact that men, in general,
don't really care as much as women do. Take this viral ad from K-Mart, for instance:
Men found it funny, and women found it cute "and sexy." Men don't care nearly as much about being "gawked at" as women do, so you will never, or very rarely, hear "That's sexist to men!" or "Robin Thicke is a dad! Stop being sexual!"
Women tend to be hypocritical in this context, because they like to see men sexualized just as much as men like to see women sexualized, but the major difference between the two sexes, is that women make more noise when it comes to being objectified where as men could really care less about being objectified as just find it humourous. In fact, when men do complain, 90% of the time, they're trolling for the sake of satire.
If there was a gender reversal in either of those two ads posted above, women and over-the-top feminists would have a meltdown across the world, but because men are featured in the advertisements, no one really cares, including men.
So, the bottom line is that, yes, Beyoncé can be as sexual as she wants at her concert or on that disaster of an awards show known as The BET Awards, but at The Grammys, or AMAs, or Billboard Awards, et cetera, she'll have to tone down the sexy, or face backlash from bitter women all over the world, just like Miley did. That's just the way it is and will always be.
...Vin
I only see white boxes so I wish I could see these ads..... But maybe the fact that men don't mind being "Gawked" at is because they aren't usually gawked at, while women in our society are largely valued for their physical attraction.