Well I have a thing where I talk to a lot of people since i'm not tied down, and putting myself out there since I don't know any gay scenes in CT. Why limit myself to somebody i'm just talking with? I would stop talking to other people though if you make it clear you want to date me and I return the feelings. When we are established like that then the other party can feel some type of way if i'm talking to other ppl i'm interested in.