This is like a straight person saying, "Do you consider homosexuality an actual sexuality? So many say that homosexuals just had issues in their youth."
Bisexuality is often a holding area for many gay men as they come to terms with their true sexuality, however this doesn't mean that bisexuality isn't real no more than an apple pretending to be an orange means that oranges aren't real.
.....yes. and anyone who say it doesn't is ignorant as ****. Alot of gays themselves try to treat it like it's a phase. Just because you can only see yourself power bottoming behind a McDonald's garbage can for a combo to a daddy you met on Grindr and could never see yourself being with a girl, doesn't mean OTHER PEOPLE can't be bisexual. ESPECIALLY guys. Guys can be bisexual. It's not always "gay and lying" or "straight and confused", like everyone assumes it is.
Why do we constantly try to knock anyone who isn't monosexual? I just don't see how we can try and shun the legitimacy of someone else's sexuality, while we're trying to scream homosexuality is not a choice, while homophobes are trying to tell us it is.
Yes, saying you can't like boys and girls is like saying you can't like vanilla and chocolate. Who says you can't have both and have to choose either? Or that people just don't wanna be called gay?
I mean, you can feel attracted to both males and females, I don't know why that's a hard concept for some to grasp