Discussion: Texting him/her too much or too little? - Page 2

Mariah4life

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Originally posted by Donatella Versace

This is a little bit different but I'm kind of going through the something like this right now and I thought I would post this here... My boyfriend isn't talking to me right now and he got really mad at me because I was texting him too much.

He was like "Don't ever text me again" and I felt like such an idiot omg. It's been a really long time since we've talked and he's still ignoring me. I've tried texting him, calling him and leaving him messages, sending him messages on facebook and emailing him. I've been trying to get in touch with him every way I possibly can but he's still not talking to me.

Should I keep trying to get in touch with him or should I wait for him to text me? I've never had a boyfriend before and this is the first serious relationship I've ever been in so idk what to do.

Don't you guys have an IN REAL LIFE relationship together?
Why is it all just texting?

If it's just texting all the time and never meeting each other, simple, he's not your bf.

Yourfavefan

What do you feel when someone texts you excessively though?

For me, i just like texting.. it feels like if someone isn't texting me back, he just isn't interested..

Guero

Wait, how would you set up a date without exchanging numbers first?

Anyway, depending on if I liked the guy, I would text him the following day, thanking him for a good time last night and then carry the conversation from there.

I would really find out if he's more a texter or an "on the phone kind of guy." The majority of guys I've dated have been the "text all day until one of us falls asleep" kind, so when I met a guy who would pop up and say "good morning," text for a little and then stop the convo but then would call me later that night, it threw me off and thought he wasn't really interested... until I found out later that he's more of an "on the phone/FaceTime" kind of guy.

Ronaldista

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Originally posted by Donatella Versace

This is a little bit different but I'm kind of going through the something like this right now and I thought I would post this here... My boyfriend isn't talking to me right now and he got really mad at me because I was texting him too much.

He was like "Don't ever text me again" and I felt like such an idiot omg. It's been a really long time since we've talked and he's still ignoring me. I've tried texting him, calling him and leaving him messages, sending him messages on facebook and emailing him. I've been trying to get in touch with him every way I possibly can but he's still not talking to me.

Should I keep trying to get in touch with him or should I wait for him to text me? I've never had a boyfriend before and this is the first serious relationship I've ever been in so idk what to do.

I'm sorry to hear this

It is a really tough situation, but the best advice I can give you is to leave him alone for now. There is nothing you can do because you can't force him to speak to you. I don't know the background of your relationship, how long you've been together/how long he has been ignoring you, but if you mean something to him, he will get in touch again eventually. In the meantime, try not to dwell on it and focus on your own life, try to distract yourself. Don't sit around thinking about him and waiting for a message all day because it will only bring you down. All the best

Chrome

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Originally posted by Donatella Versace

This is a little bit different but I'm kind of going through the something like this right now and I thought I would post this here... My boyfriend isn't talking to me right now and he got really mad at me because I was texting him too much.

He was like "Don't ever text me again" and I felt like such an idiot omg. It's been a really long time since we've talked and he's still ignoring me. I've tried texting him, calling him and leaving him messages, sending him messages on facebook and emailing him. I've been trying to get in touch with him every way I possibly can but he's still not talking to me.

Should I keep trying to get in touch with him or should I wait for him to text me? I've never had a boyfriend before and this is the first serious relationship I've ever been in so idk what to do.

I think you're being overbearing. Don't message him for a while and he'll come running back to you. And, when he does, don't do it again. There are some people who legit dislike that.

Sláy

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Originally posted by Chrome

I think you're being overbearing. Don't message him for a while and he'll come running back to you. And, when he does, don't do it again. There are some people who legit dislike that.

True.