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Discussion: Are you in love?
Member Since: 7/21/2012
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With fictional characters, yes.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by robboadam
It's Complicated.
I fell in love with someone very recently....my very first love. It was beyond lust or infatuation - I deeply cared about him and loved him.
So after about 6 months of being very couply with each other - going shopping, going dancing, going to the movies, cooking each other meals, sleeping with each other - I asked him if he would ever wanted a relationship. And he said no.
I was completely devastated - heartbroken. I just expected him to say yes, and everything would be happily ever after. I really loved this guy. And yet it felt like all that time had just been a waste. He never gave any indication that he didn't want a relationship.
He left the next day to go to back home to Barbados for the holidays, and now I'm stuck here alone trying to move on. Worse still, I'm not sure he realised how much I loved him.
I still have strong feelings for him, and he will always be my first love - but alas, an unrequited love.
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Aaawww that's so sad. I'm sorry.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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No, I had a couple crushes but it's never been love. I don't fall for people easily anyway, I only start liking someone when they already like me
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No, don't be silly. I really like someone, though.
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No
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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No.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Member Since: 2/16/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by robboadam
It's Complicated.
I fell in love with someone very recently....my very first love. It was beyond lust or infatuation - I deeply cared about him and loved him.
So after about 6 months of being very couply with each other - going shopping, going dancing, going to the movies, cooking each other meals, sleeping with each other - I asked him if he would ever wanted a relationship. And he said no.
I was completely devastated - heartbroken. I just expected him to say yes, and everything would be happily ever after. I really loved this guy. And yet it felt like all that time had just been a waste. He never gave any indication that he didn't want a relationship.
He left the next day to go to back home to Barbados for the holidays, and now I'm stuck here alone trying to move on. Worse still, I'm not sure he realised how much I loved him.
I still have strong feelings for him, and he will always be my first love - but alas, an unrequited love.
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I feel for you I've been there and it hurts. It's rather confusing. That's why I learned to ask the relationship question at the start. That way I'm not surprised.
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Member Since: 8/31/2013
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Kinda, with my ex.
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Originally posted by KillingYourCareer
No, I had a couple crushes but it's never been love. I don't fall for people easily anyway, I only start liking someone when they already like me
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Pretty much the same with me, but with less bitchy/egotistical attitude..
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Member Since: 11/16/2011
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Yes but I always try to pretend around my friends that I'm over him already.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by TeamSelenaMarie
With fictional characters, yes.
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let's get you a man, sis :melryan:
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Originally posted by Kiel D-01
Yes but I always try to pretend around my friends that I'm over him already.
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we all already have done that
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Member Since: 3/5/2011
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Not anymore, thankfully.
Initially he was my best friend. The best friend I have ever had and am ever likely to have... He is straight, and has a girlfriend. He was there for me coming out, and was the first person I told, and he was always protective of me when I was afraid of people reacting badly.
Our relationship changed to the point that we treated each other as if we were in a relationship, completely accidentally, and when I realised my feelings for him, I rather foolishly just let myself go... I had never experienced love before, and it was amazing.
Then my feelings became more obvious to him, and he was worried our closeness would be leading me on. Eventually I told him the truth. He was so supportive, but it really affected me and I did so many things to mess up our friendship...
Now we are getting back to a better place again. Getting over him was the hardest thing I have ever had to do, but the fact that he is still there for me means more to me than anything.
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Member Since: 7/21/2012
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Originally posted by VyktorJonas
let's get you a man, sis :melryan:
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yeah, I'm IN DEEP need of one.
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Member Since: 5/28/2010
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Nope.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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With myself. People think I'm joking but I'm actually incredible on so many levels
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Who's that?
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by Darren-5-08
Not anymore, thankfully.
Initially he was my best friend. The best friend I have ever had and am ever likely to have... He is straight, and has a girlfriend. He was there for me coming out, and was the first person I told, and he was always protective of me when I was afraid of people reacting badly.
Our relationship changed to the point that we treated each other as if we were in a relationship, completely accidentally, and when I realised my feelings for him, I rather foolishly just let myself go... I had never experienced love before, and it was amazing.
Then my feelings became more obvious to him, and he was worried our closeness would be leading me on. Eventually I told him the truth. He was so supportive, but it really affected me and I did so many things to mess up our friendship...
Now we are getting back to a better place again. Getting over him was the hardest thing I have ever had to do, but the fact that he is still there for me means more to me than anything.
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those damn straight
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Member Since: 8/29/2012
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Originally posted by VyktorJonas
more details please
what's wrong with him? you basicly described a relationship itself
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I know. But the bastard also decided to sleep with other people during that time. And I wanted exclusivity.....as you do.
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