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Originally posted by wanderlust
oh my god stop being the victim! every damn time.. just stop! every single famous person goes through that. and every single person on earth goes through friendships or people letting them down. that's LIFE. stop being so damn weak and look for pity and sympathy in everything!
jeez some popstars grew up without parents or saw them being killed in front of their own eyes and havent complained ONCE ! some people go through cancer and all they do is smile and tell people not to worry.
she has everything in her own hands: she's healthy and has the power, the voice, and the abilities and opportunities to do whatever she wants and maintain a luxurious living and be with her family. Sorry but seriously.. she's had a better life (even pre-fame) and opportunities than most popstars combined!
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Yes and no.
I agree that she needs to be stronger and stop playing the victim publicly (she can host pity parties with her actual friends and family - not fans who have no idea how to relate or know the full story).
However, it's not a game of sob story top trumps. Just because it could be worse, doesn't mean it invalidates how she feels. That applies to everyone in life. It's ridiculous to dismiss her issues because she's had it theoretically "better". Growing up in a financially comfortable family doesn't prevent horrible things happening. I can vouch for that.
We don't truly know what's going on. I doubt she's acting like this simply because Troy told her Venus shouldn't be the second single etc. It sounds like she's struggling with how many people around her aren't truly her friends or on her side and are simply using her for gain. That's a very isolating feeling and has led to countless celebrity destructions before.
