Oh dear darling, we are on the same zone and yes I TOTALLY understand that feeling. How to deal with it, I don't know how to deal with it . So, the best thing I can do is listen to Madonna and you have to stand alone. Take it as experiences , learn from it and you will ahead of everybody, by any other mean you're growing faster. Ever wonder why some of artist, for instances Madonna, Rihanna often say ''I don't give a fck'' . Their skin is thick enough . They've been living too many life.

I used to think exactly like this when I got rejected.

An important thing to remember is that people can reject you for plenty of reasons, and it's usually not because of "something you've done" (unless you were already in a relationship with them and you ****ed up). I can't remember where I heard it, but, people are very self-centered beings. Majority of the time, anything that someone does generally stems from something inside themselves that causes them to do it. I went through a lot of self-reflection after I thought I got "rejected" by a guy that I REALLY liked. I had a bit of a breakdown and swore to myself that there was something wrong with me, that I was ugly, that it was because I'm black, that I'm not good enough, that I don't deserve him he's too good for me, that he's out of my league, etc. None of that mess that goes through your head after rejection is true and it's toxic. Turns out about 3 weeks down the road, the guy contacts me asking if I wanted to go out with him again now that he was on break from school. His rejection wasn't really even a rejection from his point of view. So it could even be that you're just reading too much into things.

The best thing to do is to just breathe, and do something that you enjoy to take your mind off of it. Then realize that he's not the only guy in the world. When you take a step back and look at things with a clear head, you'll realize that most people are no where near as amazing and perfect as you may have thought they were. A lot of times we find someone who we really like, and our brain fills in missing pieces about them and their persona. We create an ideal person that doesn't exist and project that onto them in our minds. So when we get rejected, it feels that much worse.

But realize that if he doesn't want to be with you (for whatever reason), then he doesn't deserve you and you two have no business being together in the first place. Also, it helps to think of all the people in your life who DO like and enjoy being around you. Trust me, there are plenty.

Switch the "Give You What You Live" mode and something will certainly happen

Problem is, you aren't always going to have closure. You just have to learn to accept that. He may have rejected you because he has too much going on in his life rn. Maybe he just doesn't have time. Maybe he's scared of commitment. Maybe he's already had his eye on someone else before you came along. Or maybe it's because you're not his type. There's literally endless possibilities, and it's only going to hurt you to keep dwelling on it. Trust me, your time and energy is better spent on more productive thoughts. You can really go crazy thinking about that ****. At the end of the day, the reason doesn't really matter, bc there's other guys out there who will appreciate you for you. Take care of yourself first and don't try to make a relationship happen when it's just not happening.

I cannot give you the advice. I'm also curious how people deal with rejection because guys always come to me

feel really bad for a while, but then find a good, happy song and cheer up

Last semester, I had to do this mother*********** job shadow project. I had to cold call to companies to ask for an interview with an outside salesperson. Had to call like 30 companies before someone agreed to have an interview with me you know how I felt about hearing them say "no" i was so tired and scared of it that it took me one hour just to make 3 phone calls but in the end, I still made it, I got what I needed
moral of the story is that if someone rejects you - no matter in relationship or businesses or whatever - you just have to take it and put it aside. think about it in a positive way that you don't have to waste your valuable time on them anymore eventually you will find someone that accepts you - it's always like that rejection always happens, the more we face and deal with it, the less we feel bad about it

I have no idea how to deal with rejection, and I'm constantly rejected. And I constantly put myself in a position to be rejected. And then I feel stupid or that there must be something wrong with me. I question every last thing I do/did. Am I being silly? Did I say something stupid? Am I ugly?, etc. etc.

It's wash rinse repeat for me.

I just don't deal with it. There are plenty of fish in the sea; that's what my brother and I say anyway.

being rejected sucks but then as time goes on I just get over it.

ooh I like this!

On another note though, have you thought about what you did leading up to those rejections?

I'm not saying that it's not them it's you, but you should understand that sometimes it's an equally nerve-racking experience to be approached. I have had people coming up to me and basically pushing me to make a yes/no decision when I don't even have much to work with. 9 out of 10 I said no, but that was a no to the approach and the question and not to them personally. If you give people time, and let them know you as a person before asking the question, they will be more likely to say yes. If they say no, at least you will know that it isn't meant to be and you have nothing to regret.

I get the f*ck over it.

I hate rejection. lmao.. I feel offended tbh, but end up feeling better 2 seconds after it.

If jobs are any indicator; then Not well.

I don't really ask because I'm shy

It's probably one of the worst feelings I've experience. I hate it so much. But then you realizes that someone more fitting deserves you, if they didn't want to be with you then it's their loss and not yours. Make sure to be with people you love, be comfortable and try to listen to music that makes you happy.

Also do NOT overthink the situation it will only make you feel much worse about yourself because rejection can really mess up your self confidence.

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If there are bad thing that happened in my life, one of the worst of em is rejection; its just very harmful and changes you

Ill post more cuz now im driving