D seems to be doing good for herself, I mean, if she has a roof over her head and steady income, then she's not doing SO bad. If she's fulfilling her needs and desires artistically, which are things she couldn't do in DK, then good for ha. If she's making more money now than what she made in DK, then even better. I can see why she didn't wanna come back in the first place IF that's the case.
What's NOT helping her case is this backtracking, it makes her come off as bitter after she essentially brushed off the reunion for whatever reason she saw fit at that point in time.