Personality or Intelligence: What's More Important?
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You set up a date with a guy. What is more important to you, or which one do you prefer over the other? A guy with a great personality but not so smart or a guy who's wicked smart but is kind of boring? Would you find his intelligence fun? If a guy is kinda dumb but fun, is that better? Discuss.
Intelligence is nice, but I'll have to go with personality. Charm, wit and a sense of humor falls into that and it means more to me than someone who happens to know a lot.
I rather have a smart serious man than an amusing not so bright man if considering a potential mate. Amusing is cool short term, but long term it's better to go with intelligent. I'd rather my future children have a smart father than a funny father, tbh if forced to pick only one.
Personality.
I want somebody who understands me. Somebody who will be there when I need him and tells me that everything is okay even if it is not. I think a smart person couldn't do that bc they are to smart for that. I mean you fall in love with the Person and not the brain. You learn to love a heart. You learn to love a Person. I don't care if he is dumb as bread. I don't need no Einstein. I need a Person who I can trust, who can make me laugh and just loves me. A smart person can be all those things but they are more realistic and I am more of a dreamer. So me and a smart person would not match.