Can a relationship survive cheating if one or both cheated? What about a long distance relationship? What if both cheated in a long distance relationship? What if one cheated? In any and every situation, can a relationship survive cheating? Can trust be rebuilt or did Gaga & Beyonce preach bible truth when they said trust is like a mirror? discuss.
To me, if I was cheated on, I would never forgive. It isn't fair to me that I've remained loyal and my partner has went out and decided that "I'm not good enough" so they had to go out and betray me.
Some people though can look past that, and that's good for them. I just know I can't date someone who's cheated on me.
No, it would instantly end a relationship for me. I'm open to the idea of my boo getting a little fun on the side if that's what he needs, but if he doesn't respect me enough to be honest an say what he wants, then the relationship is over. I don't really care about who you sleep with, I care about whether you're honest with me.
My parents were married for about 25 years when my Dad had an affair. He was working overseas for a long time, and he was lonely. My Mum forgave him and they've now been married for nearly 35 years.
When it comes to cheating, there are a lot of factors i.e. long-distance, needs bring fulfilled, growing-apart, etc,
I could never forgive that. Not only would they have betrayed my trust but also shown me that I am not good enough for them.
Plus the thought of my partner being intimate with someone else the way they are with me makes me physically sick. I wouldn't even be able to touch them without feeling ****ed over.
Also it depends on whether or not you have children. I know couples who have stayed together for the sake of their children, but would have ended it, if they didn't have children.
Divorce and explaining to your children why their parents aren't together anymore can mess up a child and affect them long-term.
I know cases when people overcame cheating and are well few years later, but for me - definitely not.
I mean, if you want to **** someone else, all you have to do is to ask and get them tested. But it really has to be one time only.
Depends on how bad they cheated, how long the couple has been together, and if they are both willing to get past it. Its not really a black & white thing.
This is such a diffcult question because there are so many factors to count in. For some people though it's pretty straightforward.
Personally I think that if the two people really care about each other, and the cheater came clean and it was a ONE time thing. A moment of vulnerability where they just felt like something was so wrong in the relationship that they had to resort to that, but feel extermely horrible about it then yes it can work. Usually if someone has the balls to awknowledge their wrong doings & are very willing to work on the relationship, it can survive.
If the cheater didn't come clean and cheated more than once and never really showed any remorse then no. That generally just means that the person isn't really interested in making it work.
This is such a diffcult question because there are so many factors to count in. For some people though it's pretty straightforward.
Personally I think that if the two people really care about each other, and the cheater came clean and it was a ONE time thing. A moment of vulnerability where they just felt like something was so wrong in the relationship that they had to resort to that, but feel extermely horrible about it then yes it can work. Usually if someone has the balls to awknowledge their wrong doings & are very willing to work on the relationship, it can survive.
If the cheater didn't come clean and cheated more than once and never really showed any remorse then no. That generally just means that the person isn't really interested in making it work.
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