I get turned on by guys, but sex isn't exactly something I strongly desire. It's kind of gross to me.

It is kind of sad to hear that you find sex disgusting. But it is what it is I guess. If you are happy then that is all that matters. I guess you need to date another Asexual?

But I am happy here to be sexually active though. The bad thing about it is all those infections and diseases out there transmitted by sex though. Just got to be careful and protected all the time. it is scary out there!

Asexuality just means that you don't find anyone sexually attractive. You don't have to think sex is disgusting.

Am I wrong? You can still like sex as an asexual person.

I have a hard time understanding it, isn't sexuality human inherent? Some asexuals admit they get turned on but don't like the actual act of sex. Isn't that more of a psychological hangup than sexual orientation?

Asexuality does not mean that thoughts of a sexual nature become repulsive to you. Don't be so dramatic.

It just means that you don't feel a physical desire for sexual intimacy with others. I don't personally know anyone who identifies as asexual, but I am familiar with it.

So you just want a platonic relationship with someone or do you have literally no interest in being in a relationship at all?

This is what I thought it meant.
I personally don't care to much for sexual intimacy.
With all the guys I've been with I've kinda had to grin and bear through it, but I always thought
it was because of a sexual deficiency or something like that.

I guess asexuals feel the same way about everyone, the way gays feel about the womens

What? No, it doesn't mean you find it repulsing... Where have you learnt that? Have you always found sexual intimacy repulsing?

One of my buddies is. He's 28, had sex once because of societal pressures, and hasn't ever again. He doesn't date and he's happy like that.

I don't believe in it

You don't like the thought of sex AT ALL?

I think it is biologically impossible and is in fact a psychological hang-up. Were you not born with hormones?