When I pledged my pledge brothers and fraternity was fine with it after I told them, I came out to my big first.
I mean obviously the guys have to feel you out and see how they get along with you (well that's what mine did.)
Most frats at my school don't care as long as you can hold your own and know how to have a good time.
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They should be careful though because they can lose their chapter over that ****.
I mean didn't he go through a interview process to get a bid anyways?
