I hate when people make plans with others and include me in them without asking me first, especially when I don't know who the **** the people are. Some people aren't very socially aware. ****ing low self monitors...
My cat is in heat and there are no males around for her to mate with. Someone kill me.
You didn't get your cat spayed
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Originally posted by Kitt
I'm starting to see the point of those people who shun the thought of birthing children or becoming a parent because they cannot fathom the thought of bringing another being into this corrupt world. Just that, combined with the paranoia of not being a fit parent⁄continuing a cycle or getting a "bad seed" is enough to seriously make me consider staying childless forever. It just sucks as someone who would very much like to share my life (aka get married) with someone once I'm older, that that person may not accept that idea. Down the road— and I mean way down the road, I would love to be a wife and mother. But I'd be quite fine being the former without the latter. But it's hardly common to find someone who will be satisfied with just that half without "needing" the latter down the road. I think my biggest fear is falling into the cycle and becoming a replica of my biological mother— an abusive parent, with damaging habits, three kids from three different fathers who's still single. The least I can do is get the kids part right.
I was thinking of this today. I decided I didn't want bio kids when I was 16 but I've been thinking that I might not even want to adopt and just be childless. The thought of failing as a parent is terrifying to me. There's so many ways you could disappoint your children or not do enough to prepare them for the future. When you have a kid you have to show them how to behave and how to think and what's right and what's wrong and how they turn out is a reflection of you and how you treated them and that's just so much incredible pressure
Why couldn't it have topped the charts?
