Good ****ing bye at people trying to justify this by saying absolute BS like "gays love playing the victim" or "everyone uses it so it's okay".

The word is a slur, and it is offensive. Just because YOU don't see it that way or you yourself aren't gay (which makes what you're trying to say even worse) doesn't mean ****. I'm not black and use of "n*gger" is still offensive, I'm not a lesbian but use of "d*yke" is still offensive, I'm not east Asian but use of "ch*nk" is still offensive. Why do you even insist on using/supporting words like these anyway, especially considering the meanings/origins of them?