Like guys you date, or see for weeks and weeks, and they seem super interested, say how much they like you ect, and then within a week they have lost pretty much all interest and just want to be friends, or stop messaging you. Why do you think this is?

Have you had this happen to you, or do you often lose interest in others you are seeing in some shape or form, either physically or emotionally. Is it because you are generally dating more than one person before it becomes official?

This is happening to me right now.

Eh, I don't think it's anything to do with you. It's just the way the guys is. I guess they just get bored fast and want to move onto something new to keeps thing exciting. Or maybe they're afraid of commitment and don't like the thought of getting settled with someone because they're scared they'll be stuck that way forever.

Same has happened to me as well. As stated above it has nothing to do with you people like that can't maintain any form of a relationship and have to work on their issues.

I lose interest in people in a matter of weeks. I think it's cause "the chase" is the most interesting part of meeting someone and starting to really like them. Once you both have eachother's undivided attention it gets boring, for me at least.

I'm... that guy.

Ugh yes

Guys like a challenge, but not a tease.

You have to walk a thin line of not being too easy and not being a complete prude in order to keep his interest. You also need to be interesting and have something he wants other than just a dick or a hole to stick his dick in.

same.

this

As I get older the more and more I realize I'm that guy

then I complain I don't have a relationship

Yes this often happens when you show too much interest or whatever but i don't get it. Don't you want a relationship where you both really like each other? I'm so tired of having to worry about what I say so the other person doesn't perceive me as too interested. Especially when both are you are acting like your a couple for a couple months, but then when you speak like you're too much of a couple everything changes. It's just ****.

If you're boring af then yeah.
*Speaking as a gay*

A lot of men want to be challenged and met halfway. The days where the tops dictate EVERYTHING are over. Especially after the first week of speaking. My dear bottoms, be assertive. Let it be known what you want and they will act accordingly. Nobody likes a doormat.

xoxo

You described me in the OP





I just get bored of the same **** every day. I also HATE clingy people and **** off with your morning texts, lemme wake up for a minute please

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I always do that

I just hate clingy people, even if they're attractive AF. I might be the interested person at first but once they become annoying I get this strong desire of telling them to f*ck off and become the type of dude you mentioned in the comments, however yes, I'm a f*ck buddy kinda guy

In the case you describe it means you didn't like them at all. Cause if you did you wouldn't say that. It simply means you need to find out more about the individual. Like once you do and think they're cool, you won't leave. Also most of y'all are under 25. Once you get past that age, watch **** change. FAST.

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And yet again, I'm currently in this situation.

Happened during the summer. He don't message or acknowledge my existence no more