Of course not. It's hard to cheat when you've never been in a relationship to begin with.

No. When I am dating someone, I love them enough not to look at other people in that way. When/if the feelings go, i BREAK UP with them before going after people.

Cheaters are ****ing *******. No respect for other people and just in general, extremely immature people with the emotional intelligence of a pea.

Yes, I was a teenager and was very up and down and didnt really take any of my relationships seriously. You learn from your mistakes.

No.

And I also feel that cheating isn't a 100% black-and-white issue. People are quick to judge cheaters and make these sweeping statements about the topic, but no two relationships are the same.

What would be a scenario where cheating is justified in a relationship where the two parties agreed to monogamy?

I don't mean to laugh, but....

And no, I haven't.

I wasn't trying to justify it. I don't think cheating can ever be truly justified, but I think that for me, cheating wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker. There are a lot of variables. I think it would depend on the seriousness of our relationship and the details of the indiscretion: How many times? With whom?

Most people who cheat don't do it to hurt their partner, but out of a selfish desire to fulfill something they're missing or craving within. It takes a strong person to forgive, but I think that sometimes true love isn't always picture perfect. The hard part is distinguishing which relationships and lovers are really worth fighting for.

Obviously this doesn't apply to most people, but these are just my thoughts.

I suppose.

My ex cheated on me with several people and he has been killing himself over it for a good 2 years now. I think it's time I give him a second chance. Thanks, I'm sure your situation applies to mine but there is already a barrier of trust here.

Well, if you feel like he's changed and truly worth investing more time into, it might be good to explore that chemistry again. Just tread carefully. Good luck boo!

No but my current gf has "cheated" on me sort of tho.

Do what your heart tells you to. But remember, not everyone deserves second chances. And you have to think to yourself, will his past cheating make you skeptical in the future? Can (will) you get over it?

I've never been in a relationship so no.

I never have, and I never will. I've been cheated on too many times, and it's just the worst feeling in the world.

I would never knowingly do that to someone that I supposedly loved.

I couldn't agree more.