Mess at people here defending it. You're using "gay" as a pejorative. It doesn't matter whether it offends you, you're still sending a message that "gay" = "bad."
i rarely hear it tbh. Can't think of the last time. I don't know if it's just because i'm older now, and so are the people i surround myself w/ and maybe it gets phased out with age? Possibly, if i were to go to a high school or middle school...it would still be ... a thing?