I used to be overweight but I put in the work and now I'm thin. I'm not going to lower my standards after that now when I look at certain overweight people (boys and girls) I think to myself "They would be so attractive if they just lost weight". Call me shallow but it's the truth
I had a guy tell me that on a hookup site and it was so insulting.
Well I guess you can't help who you fall in love with .
But from an attraction point of view, I'm not attracted to very overweight people. I'm still attracted to people who have a little bit of extra weight, but not obese.