Discussion: The gay community...why? - Page 7

Vato

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Originally posted by DripDrip

Because its years of the gay community building up terms like "twink" "bear" "otter" "chimp" to build walls and boarders between us. Dating in the gay community has become such a parody its pretty laughable now. When you see people posting "masc 4 masc, no femme gays or chubs".

Its pretty sick to be honest.

Scalding tea has been spilled

LadyGagaStan93

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Originally posted by JesusORGod

I know but i was talking about " being skinny doesn't mean they're automatically more disciplined.", Like what did you mean by this ?, the person used the word fit. When you call someone fit, it means they are disciplined. They can run, lift, flex etc etc. When you call someone "skinny" then that's all they are - skinny. Looking skinny is just as bad as looking fat TBQH. Like I know so many skinny people who do drugs and their healthy level is so low and they're drying out like it's gross. They can't even run from across the street like a fit person can. Being a fit person is not just physical but also mental. You have to have strong will power.

That wasn't even what the person was trying to say

They replied to the person who was talking about how lazy people are fat. When in reality lazy people can also be skinny. You're nit picking at the term "fit" which is honestly subjective. People have different ideas of what "thick" "fit" "thin" "skinny" are.

No one was talking about fit vs skinny or Fit vs fat.

Cain

So we're just gonna pretend being fat is hot just to comfort some people.

BobBertran1992

I don't like labels for my taste, I like so many types of men, twinks, fatties, regular guys etc etc But I get what the OP is saying and I've seen it so many times, too many divas on the gay scene, both from the slim side or the chubby one

JesusORGod

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Originally posted by LadyGagaStan93

That wasn't even what the person was trying to say

They replied to the person who was talking about how lazy people are fat. When in reality lazy people can also be skinny. You're nit picking at the term "fit" which is honestly subjective. People have different ideas of what "thick" "fit" "thin" "skinny" are.

No one was talking about fit vs skinny or Fit vs fat.

Who cares if skinny people are lazy ?! They can afford to be lazy.

Like if they just went to have low body fat % and they have that without having to do anything, what do YOU want them to do about that ?...

ryanjanuary

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Originally posted by Cain

So we're just gonna pretend being fat is hot just to comfort some people.

yes, just like we can pretend that what you just said isn't ignorant as f***

is it really so hard to grasp the fact that some people like chubby people, and some people don't without sounding like an asshole?

Gotham Aurora

It may be a douchebag thing to say, but I spend about six hours in the gym a week.
I'd prefer to be with someone who values health and fitness, much like I do. I just wouldn't be comfortable with someone who was content with being overweight.

GGD

not the OP posting a pic of perez

Perez is vile inside or out, Fat or fit, that mortal being is just vile..........

Giselle

Because a lot of people (gay and straight) just don't like fat people

Let's not act like this is some gay-exclusive thing.

And

at the skinny shaming in here. Everyone's an asshole for not like bigger people, but it's perfectly fine to insult skinny people who don't look like "real" men. Okay.

Nɑɑji.. ©

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Originally posted by -Lewymocha-

Whatever dude. Get off ATRL, and get on a treadmill.

Do not be mad at me because you are ugly, and you do not have a man. Get off of ATRL period and find your life & stop being so mad & bitter at me pointing out your ignorant remarks.

iLiveMusic

I would be considered overweight, and i like big guys. bears and all that is what i find attractive. I feel like ATRL is a bunch of twink types that have no actual knowledge of the world and its people. Instead they sit behind a computer screen and idolize Rihanna and Bey and get this idea that a skinny bitch is the only thing that's beautiful. Its ridiculous tbqfh.

Ties

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Originally posted by iLiveMusic

I would be considered overweight, and i like big guys. bears and all that is what i find attractive. I feel like ATRL is a bunch of twink types that have no actual knowledge of the world and its people. Instead they sit behind a computer screen and idolize Rihanna and Bey and get this idea that a skinny bitch is the only thing that's beautiful. Its ridiculous tbqfh.

people would try to dispute this but when your ass can accumulate over 15000 posts in less than 2 months it is telling

BadBitches

I'm not attracted to fat people. That's just my preference.

iLiveMusic

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Originally posted by Ties

people would try to dispute this but when your ass can accumulate over 15000 posts in less than 2 months it is telling

but the people who post that much tell others to 'get on a treadmill'... its soooo hypocritical

harajukuhyphen

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Originally posted by Marcoxxxo

its easy to be fat , you need discipline to be fit and good looking

This, i used to be chubby til i realized it was holding me back..

Rick

Fat people are usually unhealthy.

feuxtography

GOD DAMN. Y'all need to stop with this gay community "insert generalized opinion here" ********. Not every gay man is the same. There are plenty that are into bigger men. Stop youtubing **** from WeHo and new york and actually meet some gay people.

bobbleheadroger

My boyfriend is twice as heavy as I am and I've loved him for 4 years and 3 months.
If I would like for him to cut down some weight? Of course I would, but it's because he's hemophiliac and has cardiac arrythmia.

I wouldn't trade him for any hot guy in the world.

Briden

Fat shaming isnt exclusive to the gay community, and you mentioned that there are 'fine straight men' dating 'fat women' which implies that fat men have it worse which is bull. There is prejudice against gay fat men, but mostly because most men in general are very concerned with looks, so both women and gay men get their fair share of fat shaming, its not the gay community, its who its coming from.