Yes, you're the only one

Oh, and you femme gays crying about how masculine gays are always trying to put you down are the same ones who put "no black and no Asian boys" in your Grindr profiles

I really don't think that's limited to fems. But there are plenty of masc guys on Grindr who say "masc only" or "masc4masc."

I loved the article.

some really good points


everyone gives femme gays the most **** but more respect to anyone who rises above it all and still does what the **** they want


DEATH at the race comparisons is that OK now? femme gay >< dark black skin?

Not into femme guys at all. Always be yourselves and don't let anyone put you down, but personally it's a preference.. if I were into women, I'd date one.

I am on the line of both feminine and masculine. I'm very boyish looking, and I don't have a gay voice, but like when I get drunk, I act like a damn teenage girl on steroids

Femme men aren't women because they act a certain way. That is so offensive. They're still men, and they still look like men, expect teh ones with the handbags and make-up... then I dunno.. but still.... and one quality that attracts me like no other is when someone is sincere, nice and genuine, I find it super cute, and when a femme guy is like that, it's just as cute... though I can't with the make-up and girls accessories... then I am OUT, but that's a physical attraction issue

this too

it's sad that there's discrimination within a community that is already discriminated against. it's almost identical to the light-skinned/dark-skinned separation in the black community, which I'm also a part of. seeing s*** like this only further convinces me that the reason we're not taken seriously is because we're not an equal community among ourselves. so how can we expect the rest of the world to treat us equally if we can't treat each other equally?