No, I'm the person that takes 3 hours to respond even if I see your message immediately after you sent it I always feel like I'm bothering people if I send it first
I text people first all the time. I never think anything of it. I'm secure of who my friends are and I know they like to talk to me. Also when it comes to guys I like I have very little restraint and can't help but text them even if I know I shouldn't....
If I have something to discuss with the person, and I'm not just saying "hey, what's up?" or all that chitchat, then obviously I'll text first, but for the most part, I don't feel like engaging in small-talk. This means I don't text first, and sometimes I don't even text back. :x
If they really wanna talk to me, they call. Even though I'm not much of an over-the-phone talker either, I'll at least answer the phone.
That sucks...