Discussion: Do you have days where you feel ugly? - Page 2

Gangsta4alife

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Originally posted by Guernica

How I feel about the way I look changes daily. One day I feel like the most beautiful girl ever, then the next I feel like a monster

And the funny thing is, people normally feel the opposite of how I'm feeling. So if I feel really bad about myself one day, everyone else thinks I look great and if I think I look great, other people don't agree.

I can tell your a beautiful person from your posts to the tumblr of yours I follow. And I agree with you about the whole swag thing, usually when I think I look alright i'm on point. And vice vera

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Originally posted by KB.

That is true, but I'm not just talking about looks. I have moments where I'm really feeling myself like on some "Werk bitch" type of level, but today I woke up and I just felt so blah. I didn't even go to class because every single thing I put on I felt like I looked a mess in, but then I got over it and then I sat in my bathtub and just started thinking about life and I started crying.

Usually when that happens like Bey I just think what am I gonna do about it, and I just grow form there. That's why this winter I want to gain more muscle, learn a language and work more hours at my job. When I accomplish even the littlest of something it gives me so much power, it's unbelievable

Penk

Sometimes. But then I look at my yearbook and realize how ugly other people are, and everything is good.

Sadie Saxton

Somedays my head makes zits seem massive to me, when in reality they're tiny and only noticeable when I point them out.

Jameson Teqkilla

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Originally posted by KB.

Like I eat ridiculously heatlhy, but the second I eat a potato chip or a piece of candy I feel so guilty.

let me drown my developing body image issues in pop tart #2

Mezter

All the time

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Groteskou

Everyone does. The symptoms you describe about feeling unwanted and having wronged everyone are just a tad more alarming, and I'm willing to talk about it if something greater is bothering you OP.

I feel like an ugly and fat person at times, especially after I smoke. If I stare in the mirror too long I hate it. But generally, I do like how I look but I definitely need to work out haha

Retro

Sometimes, but I've done a lot for my self esteem recently.

BLaCKPoWeR

I have never felt that I was ugly. It's mainly my scrawny body that I've been insecure about. I started working out in the summer and I think I'm making some progress.

BPD

Recently... Since I haven't worked out munch this month

Jameson Teqkilla

On some real ****, the best thing to do when you have those "I'm unwanted I've wronged everyone" thoughts is to consciously say to yourself "Stop, that's ridiculous" and distract yourself. Listen to music you like, watch a trashy TV show that amuses you, call an old friend. Your brain can get stuck in the "I'm bad" feedback loop, and you've just gotta make the effort to say "**** that" and give your brain something else to focus on.

James Maslow

Sure, that's normal.

KB.

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Originally posted by Groteskou

Everyone does. The symptoms you describe about feeling unwanted and having wronged everyone are just a tad more alarming, and I'm willing to talk about it if something greater is bothering you OP.

I feel like an ugly and fat person at times, especially after I smoke. If I stare in the mirror too long I hate it. But generally, I do like how I look but I definitely need to work out haha

Oh not it's not that serious. I'm pretty open about my problems on here and a lot of people now I be going through some things, but it's not that big of a deal. It just bothers me more on some days.

My forehead is so big though.

. My friend told me I give Rihanna a run for her money.

venuss

I feel ugly everyday.

KoreanDream

of COURSE.
i am usually a very confident person but there are days where i just feel bad about myself
could be my looks, could be my personality, could be all of the above
it just happens sometimes

Grumpy Gills

PurrKaty

I am lucky that me family has good genes cause I've never had that problem. The only thing is my hair because I probably should have cut it 2 weeks ago. And I got a pimple last week from exams which the last time I had one was like 6 months before

So... Not really no

Groteskou

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Originally posted by KB.

Oh not it's not that serious. I'm pretty open about my problems on here and a lot of people now I be going through some things, but it's not that big of a deal. It just bothers me more on some days.

My forehead is so big though.

. My friend told me I give Rihanna a run for her money.

lol what a fantastic friend. I hope you guys are cool.

Guernica

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Originally posted by Gangsta4alife

I can tell your a beautiful person from your posts to the tumblr of yours I follow. And I agree with you about the whole swag thing, usually when I think I look alright i'm on point. And vice vera

You're so nice, lifts my self esteem up a bit. Thank you honey

The thing to realize for anybody that feels bad about themselves in here, it's because you know exactly what all of your flaws and imperfections are, so when you look at yourself in the mirror, your eyes go straight to them. As opposed to when another person looks at you, they normally see all the good things about you first. Maybe I should take some of my own advice

Citrus

Not really, does that make me stuck-up?

Sometimes I don't shave for a few days and that's kinda gross, I guess.

Kool_Aid_King

I'm like extremely skinny, so I always feel self-conscious about that. I try to do more for my self-esteem, an it has really helped. I don't feel completely repulsive, but I def. have those days.