MTE @ the last thing

For some reason, guys on Grindr recently have been hitting on me thinking that I'm a top. It's really baffling and I have to turn them down.

Whatever works for them.
People shouldn't put it all in a "box" and always act like there should be a "man" and a "woman" in a gay relationship.

Its up to you. That's the best part about being gay. I'm more feminine than my boyfriend but we're both more "bro" types and vers. We take turns cooking, running errands, etc.