Should their be roles in gay relationships? As in one top and one bottom? One feminine, one masculine? One sensitive, the other insensitive, etc? Do you believe in the ICONIC saying "two bottoms don't make a top" ?
I am againt the heterosexualization!
Yes 2 bottoms or 2 tops might be difficult (sexually) but the other stuff with feminine and masculine thing is ********!!
Its kind of like when heteros ask who's the husband, and whos the wife?
Noone!
We are gay men because we love men!
Some people who are bottoms are open to topping their boyfriend and end up liking it who's to say there should be roles?. There are two bottoms relationships as well and they seem to work alright.
Versatility is best. If you only bottom or top, it becomes boring and your partner will go out looking for someone else to fulfill those needs. That's how all men are.
Versatility is best. If you only bottom or top, it becomes boring and your partner will go out looking for someone else to fulfill those needs. That's how all men are.
Not true there are men out there who strictly top and can find a partner who is a bottom just fine and their relationship is solid. That sounds more like they just want to sleep around which is fine as it isn't hurting anybody.
Versatility is best. If you only bottom or top, it becomes boring and your partner will go out looking for someone else to fulfill those needs. That's how all men are.
1) Not everyone is sex-obsessed and 2) not everyone is into both of these things. Straight relationships work out perfectly fine and women don't even have dicks at all (), so.
Things aren't as black and white as that though imo. It depends on the individual(s) involved. I've known tops who have switched after beginning new relationships and vice-versa.
Versatile gay men are the happiest and have the healthiest, longer-lasting relationships. It's already been proven in studies.
That said, opposites attract. One person will always be more feminine/masculine just like one person will be more of the top/bottom. Just keep an open mind and do what feels right (which will probably be different with different people).
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