Bitch from ya algebra class walks up to you afterschool and says in a thick spanish accent "U wuz telkin to mi man about homewerk? He no studi wit u , him studi wit me!" . The next day you find out she printed pictures of your nudes you sent to your gym teacher and sent them to everyone out of rage . Youre kicked of the cheer squad and are forced to switch schools. A few hours later after all this settles in you see her and her amigas hanging out at the local Burrito shop .What do you do?
I always find myself confronting people, especially when it's people that mess with my friends/family. I took enough **** when I was a kid in school, if you have something to say, say it to my face.
I don't go out of my way to start sutff or get into things with people. One time I got in HUGE trouble for fighting. though. A guy was trying to make me mad and started throwing punches, but I picked up a chair and almost broke his skull.
i.e. when I was working last night my best friend(who also works with me)was arguing with a customer and I jumped right the **** in and started yelling at them. NO ONE messes with mah gowrls
I won't say that I'm afraid but I'm not here for confrontation if it's done in a distasteful manner. Like if you run up on someone and just start yelling at them or something along those lines.
If I want to say something to someone I'll do it in a respectful way at the proper time. I'd want them to do the same.
If I did something I wasn't supposed to do or spilled confidential info that I wasn't supposed to share then I'm going to be anxious about being confronted.
BUT, if I feel someone wronged me or disrespected me in some way, shape, or form, I won't be scared to go up to them about it.
I started a big argument once in school standing up for a friend, but I regretted it later even though it didn't turn into anything. Like, my friend wasn't even going as hard as me So, I just felt extra lame fighting her battle.
I remember my teacher told me I need to learn how to let things roll off my back instead of escalating a situation, that saying really stuck with me; would be hard pressed to do something like that again.