One of the nicest things I have seen written on ATRL. I agree with this 100% ! I always thought why would people care about who I was attracted too when I'm still the same person they have known for so long
One of the nicest things I have seen written on ATRL. I agree with this 100% ! I always thought why would people care about who I was attracted too when I'm still the same person they have known for so long
Yes. But I'm about to be a senior, so I'll probably come out to my school. I won't announce it, but I'll do me and if anyone asks I won't lie. I'm coming out to my family once I leave home though.
When it comes to my friends (and other kids at school know), I'm out, but they don't care.
But, as for families, yes. I don't plan on telling them anything (not until I move out and go off to college), and I feel so pressured in my life right now,. My dad keeps talking about "when you gonna get a girl for prom" and everybody keeps asking "why dont you have a girlfriend" yet, and it's irking me badly. Even if I wasn't gay, maybe the reason I don't have a girlfriend is because I dont do high school dating?
I'm going through a complicated process right now.
If it doesn't define you, why don't you come out then?
Because it's merely a fraction of who I am as a person; it has no effect in my life nor does it influence any sort of decision I take. I don't go around telling people I have a 2 centimeter birthmark on my thigh, so why should I need to come out as a bisexual?
I'm surprised at the 50/50 right now And I am Although 4 years ago I guess was I was really close to coming out to my mom but I was really confused back then and I clinged on to the idea that I was having some late puberty **** and that I would like to start liking girls . Worst **** ever I thought I liked a girl for a while but those were all lies worse confusion in my life ever
When it comes to my friends (and other kids at school know), I'm out, but they don't care.
But, as for families, yes. I don't plan on telling them anything (not until I move out and go off to college), and I feel so pressured in my life right now,. My dad keeps talking about "when you gonna get a girl for prom" and everybody keeps asking "why dont you have a girlfriend" yet, and it's irking me badly. Even if I wasn't gay, maybe the reason I don't have a girlfriend is because I dont do high school dating?
I'm going through a complicated process right now.
Because it's merely a fraction of who I am as a person; it has no effect in my life nor does it influence any sort of decision I take. I don't go around telling people I have a 2 centimeter birthmark on my thigh, so why should I need to come out as a bisexual?
I'm not saying go around announcing it, but it's a just a fraction of who you are why deny it? I mean if someone asked if you have a birthmark are you going to lie about.