I've really heard people use "tranny" in a negative way. Usually it's just a shortcut instead of saying transgender all the time. ****** is mostly used as a negative term towards gays so that's why it's a bigger deal.
Some gay males are so hypocritical, if the tables were turned you wouldn't hear "stop being sensitive"
Its not a problem unless it directly effects them, decorum be damned until then
If you want a shorter form of transgender, just say trans...
And the fact that some of you think that the time you save saying tranny rather than transgender is more valuable than the feelings of transgender people is ****ing depressing.
Genderqueer, which is a subset of the transgender community. It basically means I don't really express or identify as any one gender type. For example, I can bind my chest and wear heels at the same time. One being a Trans*Male characteristic and the other being a cis-female characteristic. I hope that makes sense, and if not I'm open to questions, unless you're just being a useless troll.