Sadly my Mom favors her boyfriend over her own children which is IMO some ********, how could you do more for a man that you've only known for a couple years over your children

This is part of the reason why my parents divorced, my mom put us first even though she loved my dad(but there was countless other reasons not just this) and my dad thought that the spouse should be first and then the kids

My dad still thinks that way bu it's whatever, that's why we aren't that close

Stop whining about it on here and communicate with your mother, you're an adult act like it.

no

She did with her boyfriend when she was on crack. Now she's clean and sober back with my dad she seems to care more about us. I guess

You sound very stupid to judge me and say im whining which im not. I try to "communicate" with my Mom and she only ever wants to do is argue and tell me that's her boyfriend, they've only known each other for about 3 years and she acts like he's my biological father which if this was the case I would have no problem with her taking his side

You gotta remember that he's the one who provides her with the romance and a lot of the excitement in her life. She's probably put you and your siblings' happiness before hers for so long, but she deserves to be happy too so you can't blame her for not wanting to mess a good thing up. (This is as long as he's not a jerk and it hasn't become child neglect.)

If you tried to respect him, I bet she'd appreciate it and in turn be more receptive to what you have to say.