Blow him.

subtle?

I was thinking of faking a shoulder massage as a hello, just to initiate some physical contact...

Witchcraft.

Buy them Beyonces whole discography.

Where do you draw the line at subtle?

Facial expressions? Verbalized statements?

Honestly, just go for it. LIfe's too short to sit around giving yourself headaches.

farther... we already exchange glares, but hardly speak to each other, when we are alone he would not even speak to me, but then he would pass and glare in my office at me... i also told him he looks like someone who does sports and he laughed... I would decalre right away if I knew he would not go talk about it, but he is straight he would ruin my reputation... so i can;t

what is your relationship with this guy? what is regular interaction between you two? need more info tbh

No, that's kinda weird.

Approach them as if you want to be friends. Meaning: don't do anything extra, cause if they reject, you'll feel like ****.

i know i should

coworkers

Sis just get them alone with a good Wine or Vodka. That's how i got my man.

If you think he's a straight guy you should honestly wait for confirmation before you even make any explicit and/or implicit moves.

He's your coworker so you should be wary of the repercussions of being rejected by him, not only in the work area, but also your own emotional damage. As his coworker, you see him everyday, and from what you're telling me, you both can see each other from where you work. Make sure not to impede on your working relations with him.

If you're confident in yourself, however, you can go for it. Good luck!

Look interested and then dissapear a little.

that is the problem... he is also married with children, so I can't be too open about it...

Sis.

ohhh myy... well start getting him to talk to you, always say hello by name , ask questions about his life and lots of smiles and "looks" i guess??

also there is a huge difference between glare and glance

I feel your pain. Sometimes it feels like I make it so obvious with my staring though. I can't help myself tbh. It's probably all in my head though.

Being your coworker though, you don't want to do anything too quickly in case things get awkward with him. Start off as trying to become closer friends and just see where it goes from there I guess.