Zooey & Ed are completely right.
This sexist backlash nonsense about her dating X number of people is such a stupid double standard, it's just mind boggling to me.
I realize being female in the entertainment industry means both your looks and your love life and completely open to scrutiny by the public, but if hurling sexist, shaming jokes and insults is how the public reacts to a girl exercising her capacity to explore young adult romance (it's not as if she was even doing anything ~*over the top*~ like seeing multiple guys at once), then the public has a lot to learn.