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Originally posted by BabyCantYouSee
No, that's BAD advice. It's not good to be judgemental or even seem like it. Be open, and once you get to actually know them or if you THINK you know them, it's your decision if you want to be their friend or not or just leave them as an acquaintance. You won't make many friends by being "observant". You'll just seem like a judgemental, bitter-looking bitch. And the most important tip is to not be shy.
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I think he/she was saying that I should observe people first and be careful of who I become friends with rather than just cutting someone off by the way they may seem and I agree with what you're saying also. By "observant" I mean I check people out first as in I see how they act or seem, basically how they treat certain people when they think no one is around, y'know?